Dhatura
New Metal Member
No, a kiss ain't the worst sin in the universe, fucking someone else while you have a boyfriend/girlfriend may be worse 
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Relationship question for all
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Strangelight
steak(knife) no more
Dhatura said:No, a kiss ain't the worst sin in the universe, fucking someone else while you have a boyfriend/girlfriend may be worse
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not if they dont mind you doing it
Allan
New Metal Member
If you feel like cheating, I think not doing it, may be worse than doing it. Wasting time otherwise.
Allan
New Metal Member
blackeyed
original rude boy
bleed_black_orchid
biff and chips
Im in a relationship sometimes its good sometimes its bad Im a 17 year old with far too many hormones and things happen after half a litre of vodka but yeah thats enuff of that.
blackeyed
original rude boy
raven soul had a point there, thats what i thought in my first post up there. this is why i oculdnt come to a decision. to sin in your heart is fundamentally the same as to sin in the physical sense. if i have the will to be with someone else behind my boyfriends back am i not as blameworthy as if i was with someone else - is the betrayl still there? im not sure. if, like i said above, it IS the sinning in the heart business then this would mean sinning is often an involuntary act. if i find someone physically arractive when im walking down the street, so much so that i am over come with a sudden urge to kiss them, am i a sinner? maybe it is the action that counts then, or more accurately, the decision to cheat that counts. after all if someone kisses me and i wasnt expecting it, i am not to blame. so its not just the action and its not just the will to do it.
i think the sin is in acting without thinking things through or whatever method you use to come to an honest decision. if you have some degree of loyalty to truth then you will end up doing what is right, and then you are not blameworthy. that is all based on a kantian idea of the goodwill, if you are a consequentialist you might see it differently.
(im feeling studious today)
i think the sin is in acting without thinking things through or whatever method you use to come to an honest decision. if you have some degree of loyalty to truth then you will end up doing what is right, and then you are not blameworthy. that is all based on a kantian idea of the goodwill, if you are a consequentialist you might see it differently.
(im feeling studious today)
Dhatura
New Metal Member
Fuck Kant and all the wisdom, I will never lie, cheat and steal, lie, cheat and steal, lie, cheat and steal.
It's hard enough to live peacefully with the desire to kiss one man
It's hard enough to live peacefully with the desire to kiss one man
Dhatura
New Metal Member
Strangelight said:
Well, I like to believe that they do mind it
I fucking would, yeah, otherwise I wouldn't enter a relationship.
blackeyed
original rude boy
tell me about it!Dhatura said:Fuck Kant and all the wisdom, I will never lie, cheat and steal, lie, cheat and steal, lie, cheat and steal.
It's hard enough to live peacefully with the desire to kiss one man
Strangelight
steak(knife) no more
Dhatura said:Well, I like to believe that they do mind it
Some people dont mind, and if thats the case then fair enough. Ive known couples like that who are content with the other one having the occassional bume, Ive also seen it go wrong as well. Though not as many times as Ive seen monogamy go wrong though (like 99% of the time). Traditional marital values dont count for much if you're not really into God and that, and fairy tales aren't real nor are Hollywood love movies, or Def Leppard ballads. I wonder what Lemmy and Cronos think.
Strangelight
steak(knife) no more
Dhatura said:Fuck Kant and all the wisdom, I will never lie, cheat and steal, lie, cheat and steal, lie, cheat and steal.
It's hard enough to live peacefully with the desire to kiss one man
keep trying then, and you'll get a medal at the end
blackeyed
original rude boy
that's a really good point that duncan (goldstar) traditional material values dont actually stand upto much if you arent a christian, or a christian at all....
however i am swept off with fairytales of happily ever after
however i am swept off with fairytales of happily ever after
Strangelight
steak(knife) no more
Malaclypse said:
People still generally go by traditional marital values. I wonder how things would turn out if we weren't taught these things from a young age. Blood and shit everywhere I reckon.
(Cronos and Doro)
blackeyed
original rude boy
a relationship for bumming - you hardcore bastard you....just straight up bumming like, no sex or foreplay??
Strangelight
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blackeyed
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