a lot of people seem to group metal together with punk emo shockrock etc. which annoys me immensely, but i do my best to spread the word so to speak, and promote understanding. as for those of you with religious parents, do some reading about christianity, read the bible, etc. and you'll find countless immoral statements, and inaccuracies. you might even be able to convince your parents what they're believing isn't right. i'm afraid i come from a family of devout aethiests, which gives me a... unique, perspective. i can't condemn religion without being a hypocrite, but i can condemn religion's condemnation of a wide range of groups and things. if it helps any of you out, here are some starting points in the uphill battle against ignorance:
-virtually all christian symbols are pagan in origin
-christianity condemns paganism, despite the above
-the bible was written at the council of nicea, 300 years after christ died, there were still issues with its contents, so christians fought between each other (on whether jesus was the son of god, or just a really good person)
-the bible was rewritten in the middle ages using contemporary terminology and words (hades was changed to hell)
-hell is derived from the norse "hel" and was originally applied to a refuse pit outside Jerusalem where garbage, and often sinners, were burned, it was later thought to be a magical burning lake of fire
-there are no miracles in modern times
-fancy biblical expressions are latin (because the bible originated in rome) instead of aramaic or hebrew
-the 5th commandment contradicts the universal declaration of human rights (freedom of belief)
-jesus was crucified for being arrogant, he claimed to be the son of god, which is impossible, as god has been proven to not interact on a daily basis with humans, nevermind breed with one
-immaculate conception has never taken place in a controlled lab setting
-christianity has taken more lives than nuclear weapons
theres way more, but those are just some starters
"if you can convince people of what isn't necessarily true, you can convince them to do what is not necessarily right" -me
but back to the original thread, i don't go out of my way to act different, i spout ancient history and mythology all day at school, but i get along fine with the "cool" kids, we hang out on weekends, and they respect my values and beliefs, just as i respect theirs. many people fear/dislike metalheads and "different" people because they associate them with negativity. for example, many people would think a metalhead and a hardcore punk dress the same. and they are completely different groups. but at my school, theres a small group of metalheads, and a slightly larger group of people who appreciate metal, but are not metalheads. nevertheless, out of the diehard group, i truly despise several, because they're ignorant, don't understand what they listen to (one didn't know who lady bathory is) and generally fit the negative stereotypes associated with metal. its important to remember that if you have long hair, a tshirt with a picture of someone having their entrails removed, and a scruffy (if awesome) beard, people will lump you into the category of nutcases, because all too often, they're right. if you chose to fit the stereotype, you have to accept the consequences. because metal is defined by music, and not clothing style however, it is perfectly possible to be a metalhead, and wear a business suit to work.
sorry for going on for so long