revenge on my ex

[Lies and Perfidy]

Cheating is fucked up, period. If you don't have loyalty, you don't have anything, and a betrayer is the lowest kind of human being one can be.

 

[Udo]

hey now..thats my friend! His ex is a dirty whore actually..it was something he felt had to be done...oh well..i think he had it taken down anyway..

When then, he actually did her a favor...the dirty whore...

 

[Dead_Lioness]

For me, vengeance, war, anger, fear, desperation, jealousy and all those feelings, are something I don’t want to be any part of my life.
Those things all enter us into an endless swirl that is, IMO worst than any sickness possible.

We don’t need to revenge in People who seek to hurt us, they are already in pain, they already suffer, and they feel bad about themselves anyways.
They can’t stand all that pain they carry with their pathetic selves, so they have to “share” it with causing other people pain as well.
Revenge for me, is just a way to give them an attention, a gift.
After all, everyone around us, WE are the ones who made them closer to us, we are the ones to blame for making a wrong decision with the wrong people.
We have to remember however, that next time, we need to make a better decision of whom to chose to be close to us, and send whoever that hurt us- AWAY with positive feelings instead of negative ones.
Don’t get yourself into the pool of weakness, at least know that YOU stayed strong and stayed away from all that shit.

You may think I sound like a “hippie” but you know, I live pretty happy life without all those feeling, because I simply don’t need them.


and here is my personal story: I had 2 bfs that cheated on me long time ago, but the scar is still there.
YES there is nothing worst than being betrayed, that feeling you feel inside is worst than any pain I have ever felt. It’s a pain that stay in you and cut you from inside, its terrible!
For me, people who cheat on you are the worst people ever.
So yeah. I have been there, I had “my fair share” in that world on pain,
But to “get even” is even worst, is to go down to their level of weakness and lowness…
No thanks
Im so much better than that.
I took my lesson from it, I moved on.

So now you see, in my opinion: vengeance is low, weak, and idiotic,
It’s a cheap way to make yourself feel “good” about hurting the one that hurt you.
But people don’t understand that the BEST and the REAL powerful way to feel good about that, is to walk away with your head up, and to know, that YOU stayed out of it.


But that’s only MY opinion.

 

[Lillitu]

I agree fully with you Karen. I've been hurt bad myself by a cheater and, while I dreamed about revenge, I never acted upon it. Karma, in the end, did come around and bite him on the ass. His life became more miserable due to his actions and small soul than any revenge I could have enacted upon him.

Dreaming, it sound trite, but she is her own worst enemy right now. Give her enough rope and she will hang herself.

 

[Eddie6]

For me, vengeance, war, anger, fear, desperation, jealousy and all those feelings, are something I don’t want to be any part of my life.
Those things all enter us into an endless swirl that is, IMO worst than any sickness possible.

We don’t need to revenge in People who seek to hurt us, they are already in pain, they already suffer, and they feel bad about themselves anyways.
They can’t stand all that pain they carry with their pathetic selves, so they have to “share” it with causing other people pain as well.
Revenge for me, is just a way to give them an attention, a gift.
After all, everyone around us, WE are the ones who made them closer to us, we are the ones to blame for making a wrong decision with the wrong people.
We have to remember however, that next time, we need to make a better decision of whom to chose to be close to us, and send whoever that hurt us- AWAY with positive feelings instead of negative ones.
Don’t get yourself into the pool of weakness, at least know that YOU stayed strong and stayed away from all that shit.

You may think I sound like a “hippie” but you know, I live pretty happy life without all those feeling, because I simply don’t need them.


and here is my personal story: I had 2 bfs that cheated on me long time ago, but the scar is still there.
YES there is nothing worst than being betrayed, that feeling you feel inside is worst than any pain I have ever felt. It’s a pain that stay in you and cut you from inside, its terrible!
For me, people who cheat on you are the worst people ever.
So yeah. I have been there, I had “my fair share” in that world on pain,
But to “get even” is even worst, is to go down to their level of weakness and lowness…
No thanks
Im so much better than that.
I took my lesson from it, I moved on.

So now you see, in my opinion: vengeance is low, weak, and idiotic,
It’s a cheap way to make yourself feel “good” about hurting the one that hurt you.
But people don’t understand that the BEST and the REAL powerful way to feel good about that, is to walk away with your head up, and to know, that YOU stayed out of it.


But that’s only MY opinion.

everytime the Lioness says something about life /music /alcohol/ people i like her more and more.

 

[Brett]

For me, vengeance, war, anger, fear, desperation, jealousy and all those feelings, are something I don’t want to be any part of my life.
Those things all enter us into an endless swirl that is, IMO worst than any sickness possible.

We don’t need to revenge in People who seek to hurt us, they are already in pain, they already suffer, and they feel bad about themselves anyways.
They can’t stand all that pain they carry with their pathetic selves, so they have to “share” it with causing other people pain as well.
Revenge for me, is just a way to give them an attention, a gift.
After all, everyone around us, WE are the ones who made them closer to us, we are the ones to blame for making a wrong decision with the wrong people.
We have to remember however, that next time, we need to make a better decision of whom to chose to be close to us, and send whoever that hurt us- AWAY with positive feelings instead of negative ones.
Don’t get yourself into the pool of weakness, at least know that YOU stayed strong and stayed away from all that shit.

You may think I sound like a “hippie” but you know, I live pretty happy life without all those feeling, because I simply don’t need them.


and here is my personal story: I had 2 bfs that cheated on me long time ago, but the scar is still there.
YES there is nothing worst than being betrayed, that feeling you feel inside is worst than any pain I have ever felt. It’s a pain that stay in you and cut you from inside, its terrible!
For me, people who cheat on you are the worst people ever.
So yeah. I have been there, I had “my fair share” in that world on pain,
But to “get even” is even worst, is to go down to their level of weakness and lowness…
No thanks
Im so much better than that.
I took my lesson from it, I moved on.

So now you see, in my opinion: vengeance is low, weak, and idiotic,
It’s a cheap way to make yourself feel “good” about hurting the one that hurt you.
But people don’t understand that the BEST and the REAL powerful way to feel good about that, is to walk away with your head up, and to know, that YOU stayed out of it.


But that’s only MY opinion.

Your a FAR better person than I, Karen. I'm not so sure that I can do the same thing if the time ever comes.

 

[Profanity]

I'm a big fan of revenge.

 

[Dead_Lioness]

Your a FAR better person than I, Karen. I'm not so sure that I can do the same thing if the time ever comes.

Thats bullshit Brett, I am no better person than you are,
its all about changing the way you see things and the way you think.
So many people are misrable with so much shit around them, i simply dont get it.

(Brett, remember that PM i sent you about a similar subject? you know what i mean)

 

[Dead_Lioness]

everytime the Lioness says something about life /music /alcohol/ people i like her more and more.

thankyou very much, but why "guest"?

 

[Super Mahrio]

Karen, we can all see your point but some people just really cant seem to have that mindset..no matter how hard they try, no matter how many times their best friends tell them to stop worrying about it, no matter what...its just the way it is..i personally dont let alot of shit get to me but you know others just cant do that...

 

[Guerrilla]

Sorry but I don't buy this whole "live and let live" attitude. To me that sounds like something a masochist would do (not calling any of you here masochists). The way I see it, if you've suffered because of someone, then it is only fair that you should have the right to make them suffer too. If you have the energy and the desire for revenge, and you feel that you'd at least get some relief out of the fact that whoever hurt you will be hurting as well, then go for it.

It will not only make you feel better, it will also be a lesson to the person who hurt you. If that person goes around hurting people and getting away with it, why would he ever change his behavior? Some might think that by being passive, doing nothing and adopting a "I won't drop down to your level by hurting you" mentality, you'll somehow make the person who hurt you realize what he did and feel sorry for it. The fact is he'll learn his lesson a lot faster if you "help" him a little bit. Take dogs for example, you can take countless hours to try to teach one not to bark in the middle of the night, but all it really takes is a collar that'll give him a shock everytime he barks and he stops it immediately.