Well, I am glad we got that cleared up. Actually, my biggest issue was with the double standard that men perpetuate, and you ladies buying into it. And that was actually what I was hoping to have an intelligent "debate" about.
Don't you see, that it's bad enough that most men look around and all they see is "whores" and then we do the same thing? We will never get the respect we deserve as equals if we buy into their way of thinking. I mean, of course you are entitled to your opinion, and I think I can see why you feel so strongly about it. Your boyfriend is in a band, he's out on tour now, you're a bit afraid of what could be going on. So it hits a little close to home. But there are also single people out there, and if they choose to get together, then who are they hurting and who are we to judge? I certainly don't care what other people do with their genitals.
You didn't like when I made a snap judgement about you, well no one does, and yeah, it was wrong. So look at it from another angle. what if the strangers across the room, who see you hanging out with the band, make a snap judgement and start saying the same disrepectful things that you have said about others? What I am trying to say is, you can stop the cycle, and rise above it, by not participating in it. You talk about them, they talk about, this one talks about that one, it never ends, it's catty and then we're all enemies or something. I mean, it doesn't really help the woman's cause, know what I mean?
