Hey, Cindi - don't think the worst!
Who knows what will happen in the future? Besides, how does your mate know all these facts? Don't let 'em get you down!
The band may play closer than you think and, if you are really into them, what's to stop you having an adventure and travelling a little further than you anticipated?
I understand that your place is much, much bigger than the UK, but if you are serious about seeing the band you're going to see them no matter what!
Wait and see where the US dates are going to be and take it from there. Who knows, you may get some advice from a fellow US fan on the forum.
Anyhow, good luck with it and keep your fingers crossed!