hemi, don't take it to your heart, what you see here. people here "might" not be what they are presenting themselves to be. it might be valid for me and for dozens of others... only few genuine are here, I believe. computer gives protection and people use that, for different things. (I, for instance, have to kill time, mainly at work, I just hop in when I'm home, to have a laugh or two, then leave after some minutes, and Nevermore happens to be my fav band, and I'm curious about whether I'm gonna hear something new....). head up high, into the sky..... don't let it pull you down. take care.