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DeadWinterDead
Not What You See
Melancholia
Eternal daydreamer
Phyros 
Second time i'm listening to this CD tonight..maybe 3rd...i've lost counting :s
know tomorrow,let the night fall
Second time i'm listening to this CD tonight..maybe 3rd...i've lost counting :s
know tomorrow,let the night fall
i understood what Lutz and Phyros wrote but not what FatherVic wrote.
¿o se supone que no se entendiera?
i got some money for CDs.... i'm taking suggestions 
¿o se supone que no se entendiera?
DeadWinterDead
Not What You See
I don't mean to write this on the NP post, but I am wondering if anyone here can give good advice... I had a bad day... Well, first I guess I should explain the problem. Well, there's this girl I like a lot, and she was explaining to me today about how her date went with her boyfriend. I felt so down from it, because I want to go out with her... And she knows I like her, but I was hoping someone would have a few pointers. Thank you.
Drexle
Vinterholic
- Sep 15, 2001
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My advice is that girls are evil and not worth the time to worry about. 
But if you decide you want to go against the above piece of sage wisdom, here's the next best thing... It has been my experience that if you like a girl, and she knows it, and you can tell that she isn't looking at you as date/mate material, you shouldn't be wasting your time on trying to change her mind. I can only think of one time amongst all my friends and aquaintances where it actually worked... The rest all end in either loss of friendship at best and fears of stalking at worst... and in all cases, a big waste of time and emotions. Were you down because she was talking about how great a guy he is, or were you down because she was complaining about him and punctuating every sentence with something that effectively means "why can't he be more like you?" If it's the former, stop reading this and just skip down to the next paragraph. If it's the latter, keep reading... Girls often seem to have this weird habit of finding a man who they think is the perfect guy... and not getting involved with him, but instead use him as a measuring stick for other men and then complain to him when she can't find one as good as he is. You may think she's hinting at something, but as I and countless other men can attest to, she's probably not, so don't fool yourself. It's just load of bullshit, and you'll see it a lot... Fortunately, not every girl is like this so there's still hope for you to find one who won't keep you in such an emotional bind.
Unrequited love really sucks. Unfortunately, it's a trap that is all too easy to fall into and in the end the only one you can blame for your misery is yourself for not having the clarity of mind and the willpower to see and overcome it... it blinds you to other potential romance that could have real promise. Really, what I would do is find another girl who will be more receptive to you. You will be happier in the long run with someone who actually shares your feelings.
Now that I've gone and spent aaaaallll this time typing, remember one thing above all the rest. Free advice is generally worth what you paid for.
But if you decide you want to go against the above piece of sage wisdom, here's the next best thing... It has been my experience that if you like a girl, and she knows it, and you can tell that she isn't looking at you as date/mate material, you shouldn't be wasting your time on trying to change her mind. I can only think of one time amongst all my friends and aquaintances where it actually worked... The rest all end in either loss of friendship at best and fears of stalking at worst... and in all cases, a big waste of time and emotions. Were you down because she was talking about how great a guy he is, or were you down because she was complaining about him and punctuating every sentence with something that effectively means "why can't he be more like you?" If it's the former, stop reading this and just skip down to the next paragraph. If it's the latter, keep reading... Girls often seem to have this weird habit of finding a man who they think is the perfect guy... and not getting involved with him, but instead use him as a measuring stick for other men and then complain to him when she can't find one as good as he is. You may think she's hinting at something, but as I and countless other men can attest to, she's probably not, so don't fool yourself. It's just load of bullshit, and you'll see it a lot... Fortunately, not every girl is like this so there's still hope for you to find one who won't keep you in such an emotional bind.
Unrequited love really sucks. Unfortunately, it's a trap that is all too easy to fall into and in the end the only one you can blame for your misery is yourself for not having the clarity of mind and the willpower to see and overcome it... it blinds you to other potential romance that could have real promise. Really, what I would do is find another girl who will be more receptive to you. You will be happier in the long run with someone who actually shares your feelings.
Now that I've gone and spent aaaaallll this time typing, remember one thing above all the rest. Free advice is generally worth what you paid for.
HellSpawn
next in line...
well.. u cant live without them and u cant live with 'em.. girls.. but well... ehh.. just do whatever u feel like is my advice
anyways, new Dream Theater wheeee!
and yes! it is a great album
anyways, new Dream Theater wheeee!
and yes! it is a great album
Phyros
Blue Jesus
´twas not surprising that the melon started to talk his native tounge (melonical) with everyone...
And I know you´d understand, the lot of you, but it is true, eventhough such language don´t really fit in here. So I wont say it again...
And ´bout the girl thing... I am not the man to answer that, I am suffering from a bad heart meself...
And I know you´d understand, the lot of you, but it is true, eventhough such language don´t really fit in here. So I wont say it again...
And ´bout the girl thing... I am not the man to answer that, I am suffering from a bad heart meself...
Lutz
Member
Phyros
Blue Jesus
Like this album, a lot!
plz astarte, don´t get everybody seems to do it nowadays... I´ll try to lighten it upp by going
plz astarte, don´t get
everybody seems to do it nowadays... I´ll try to lighten it upp by going
Phyros
Blue Jesus
Yeah, that makes me happy..
But you are listening to Nick Cave.. Grrrr... Listen to Helloween or Millecollin or something uplifting..
But you are listening to Nick Cave.. Grrrr... Listen to Helloween or Millecollin or something uplifting..
Morgana
Vintermagi
Morgana
Vintermagi
Ah! Decided to give this album another try, since I didn't
have anything else I wanted to listen to on my way to
work yesterday and today....
I'm finally getting some fav songs on this album, and it
seems like this will get a lot more spinns in my cdplayer
in the future!) I love redescovering or seeing
(well, hearing) albums in another way!)
But....their first release will always be their best one....
Then again...maybe I've grown out of this goth/doom
thing I have been in love with for quite some time....
have anything else I wanted to listen to on my way to
work yesterday and today....
I'm finally getting some fav songs on this album, and it
seems like this will get a lot more spinns in my cdplayer
in the future!
) I love redescovering or seeing(well, hearing) albums in another way!
) But....their first release will always be their best one....
Then again...maybe I've grown out of this goth/doom
thing I have been in love with for quite some time....
DeadWinterDead
Not What You See
Wow, Drexle, what you said made a lot of sense. I guess I just shouldn't worry about what she's doing. I should just concentrate on my life and build myself up again. Things in my life are messed up, and I just was hoping that someone would give good advice... And you're that person, thanks a lot.
