I can probably outcook 98% of the women I know and I'm trying to teach my son to cook. Almost none of the girls he knows can cook other than microwaving a prefab. I think every man should be able to cook because most men looove to eat.
Here's a local recipe that you might like to try. I use this basic recipe but add a few things for my taste.
Frogmore Stew
Adapted from Hoppin John's Lowcountry Cooking, by John Martin Taylor
Serves 8
St. Helena Island, near Hilton Head, used to have a town center called Frogmore, named after an ancestral English country estate. It consisted of four buildings, including the post office; new residents have changed the official name to St. Helena. In the early 20th century, Frogmore was the site of booming caviar and diamondback terrapin businesses. The "stew" is named after the old Sea Island settlement.
This Lowcountry seafood boil is usually served on paper plates around newspaper-covered picnic tables outdoors, with plenty of ice-cold beer. Just throw the trash on the papers and wad them up and throw them away when finished. Potatos can be added if you like, they're just filler to me though, but they should go in @ 5 minutes before the sausage. Partially cleaned but uncooked crab is sometimes added to the pot at the same time as the corn. I recommend adding the crabs. I also add 4 average quartered onions and @ 12 celery stalks when i add the corn. Adjust the amount of water as necessary. The recipe may be adjusted for more or fewer people by allowing 1/2 pound of shrimp per person, 1/4 pound of sausage per person, 1 1/2 ears of corn per person, and 2 tablespoons of "boil" per gallon of water.
3 tablespoons commercially prepared shrimp boil such as Old Bay
Seasoning plus 3 tablespoons salt or 3 tablespoons homemade boil
1 1/2 gallons water
2 pounds hot smoked link sausage, cut into 2-inch pieces
12 ears freshly shucked corn, broken into 3- to 4-nch pieces
4 pounds shrimp
In a large stockpot, add the seasonings to the water and bring to a boil. Add the sausage and boil, uncovered, for 5 minutes. Add the corn(onions, celery, and crabs) and count 5 minutes. Add the shrimp and count 3 minutes. (Don't wait for the liquid to return to a boil before timing the corn and shrimp.) Drain immediately and serve. We just dump it in the middle of the table and go to work with our built in utensils
Note: If you cannot find a spicy hot smoked sausage, use another smoked sausage such as kielbasa and add 1/2 teaspoon hot red pepper flakes per person. I like to use @ 1/3 to a whole bottle of "Sudden Death(9th hottest sauce slightly bitter because of the Habaneros)" or "Beastly(@ 20th Habs & Carolinas )" hot sauce depending on the size of the stew and the stamina of the people eating
. Leftover Frogmore stew helps make a delicious soup. Peel the shrimp, cut the corn from the cob, slice the sausage thinly, then add to simmering duck stock or tomato juice to warm through. Season with fresh hot peppers.