I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone. Not a single person.
I can't see myself having a kid, but if I did would not bring them to hell with me. If you could not see how important your girlfriend was or your kid when having them in your life maybe it is your problem and you deserve it.
I've had plenty of bad things happen and it's my fault. what do you expect
Bad shit happens when you're a crappy person
The truth hurts.