toms resonance

It's really a trial and error thing, there is no one way to do it. And it's never the same thing twice :)

Lotsa fun huh?

~006
 
Play with your comp attack time so that the transient gets through and the resonance gets pushed way down. Gating can help too even if you are only gating by 3-10dB.
 
I tend to like the sound of toms when the bottom head is tuned a half step or so lower than the top head... It kind of creates a downward-pitched "boom" that sounds nice and thick, and it doesn't resonate quite as much as when the pitch stays the same.
 
Honestly, I'd just fade that shit out, or use a gate if I'm feeling lazy. Total control of the sustain. I'd EQ or compress a bit like a snare to get more attack.