I know you are a TOOL fan as well, and yes Anne is my grandmother. If you know anything about the song 10,000 days, it is about a son losing his mother, and that is exactly what happened at that moment. My father's mother passed away after years and years of cancer, diabetes, and dementia. She finally went home to her heaven. Some people believe and some people do not. The irony of it is the phone call was at the point where the lyrics say "fetch me the spirit the son and the father, tell them their pillar of faith has ascended, it's time now, my time now, give me my, give me my wings".
No more no less. Just ironic my father lost his mother at the time that these lyrics were being sung.
P.S. I do not have OPETHIAN tattooed on my hands. That is Sharpee.