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Stygian_Apothegm said:
Well whether asshole or not, I was giving you some sincere advice. I may not have gone into this in depth philosophical answer for you, but it was my advice.
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Well whether asshole or not, I was giving you some sincere advice. I may not have gone into this in depth philosophical answer for you, but it was my advice.
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Stygian_Apothegm said:aw looks like i made a new friend
i was joking mate.
You have to admit, my comment was fair. I was just saying that when you said you wouldn't study and then said that you were going to fail. Why not try as hard as you can and then you might get somewhere?
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DarknessEternal said:
nah. I'm so much like stygian that I figure I do enough of that when I put myself down and that's a daily thing for me.
what'd I do now?Azogue said:@Phoenix: "I want to be on the whiner list" --You already are
Stygian_Apothegm said:phoenix ill put you down too
omg I win 
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D'oh! I confuse GreatPhoenix with Guardian of Darkness......haha, I don't know why, there's no resemblance in the screen name, but I always mix you guys up.
So anyway, Greatphoenix=win
So anyway, Greatphoenix=win
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Guardian of Darkness said:Yes, it must be Phoenix's manliness, combined with his incredible intelligence.
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Guardian of Darkness said:He is.
phoenix isn't thilly
he's not one of us theckthie people
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Sometimes the simplest advice is the best, and i believe this is a case of it.loudsilence said:
Stygian all you need to do is deal with things. Instead of trying to find the absolute perfect road forward just go out and for a day or two just swallow all those anxiety feelings and do the stuff you need to. You can dismiss this advice because it sounds too simple, or you can act on it and try it and see what comes of it. Anxiety is not justified a lot of times, and the things you worry about will often never even be half as bad as you worry they will be (to clarify, 'you' in this sentence is the collective one meaning everyone). But no amount of thinking or advice about it will ever convince yourself of it. The way to overcome it is to start just saying 'fuck it', like Desecrated said. Just get out there, take those steps you need to, and you'll start to see things are a lot easier this way. It won't happen over night, but if you do it consistantly and force yourself to just do things then eventually you'll find you naturally stop getting so anxious. Anxiety doesn't have to stop you doing things, it'll just make you feel like absolute shit leading up to doing them (so accept this and realise that once you do the things you get to relax about them).
Get some research about summer school and then when you tell your mum you can say that and she will see that you are at least trying to do the right thing. And you should tell her anyway, do you want to fail? Sometimes this is what family or friends are there to do, to FORCE us to do the things we would rather not do, because they know it's for the better. And you know it's for the better too.
Good luck, and don't dismiss what Desecrated has advised. Don't assume he never had it as bad as you. These things CAN be overcome, but you won't achieve it in the ways you think you will.. it just takes a change of mind. You don't even have to believe this change of mind, just lie to yourself, get your body to do things and your mind will catch up and believe it later.
3 or 4 times? Maybe YOU are the one who needs math help!!!loudsilence said:
