Vacationing Italian in prison for slapping his child
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MarcusGHedwig
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TravisW
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Sweden needs to let parents be parents, and take care of the substance abuse problems that their wildlife face EVERY DAY.
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One year ago an italian tourist was arrested here as a rapist because he kissed his 8 year old daughter on the lips (no tongue or anything nasty). Some dumbfucks saw the scene and called the police saying that he was a "sex tourist" kissing a minor. I think his lawyer took him out of jail in no time, but still, the whole case was pathetic.
jipchen
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Wtf. I mean the law isn't really the problem but the dick who called the police. People should learn to differentiate between a slap (allthough I don't think slapping is good parenting of course) and hitting a child. The law is good from the perspective that it's easy to help kids if there is serious mistreatment in the family or school or whatever.. because that's actually not that easy over here for example. Plus it sets a very high "barrier" and parents in general will be a lot less likely to even slap their children. But if a single slap for really uncalled behavior of a kid will get you into prison.. I don't know 
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TheWinterSnow
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There is a huge difference between corporal punishment and assaulting a child. With that in mind, parents should and need to administer corporal punishment towards their child, as it is a form of enforcing respect in younger children, which then leads to less drastic punishments as the child gets older. When children get older they do what their parents tell them out of respect and fear, but not out of a fear of being physically punished, rather a fear of letting their parents down. This is why after they get to a certain age, if corporal punishment was used, punishments such as taking away toys (computers, game consoles, phones social activities with friends) and making them do things they do not like such as doing chores etc work because while although the child does not want to do it, they do not want to make their parents more mad than they already are. It becomes more of a voluntary thing out of respect.
In my opinion as I was raised, a slap on the face is reserved for talking back, or talking in a disrespectful manner, swearing continuously after being told not to was grounds for having "non antibacterial" soap put in your mouth, hold it for some time, then spit it out and wash your mouth out (it still leaves a nasty taste but you don't ingest it). Every other offense was ground for either verbal scolding or a good old fashioned ass spanking. None of that is child abuse as long as the severity of the punishment is in moderation.
Parents should be able to do this to their kids, and parents that don't should be beaten themselves for not giving their little shits what they deserve. Most children today need a good old fashioned ass spanking to put them in line and a lot better parenting. To many parents here in the US let their kids do whatever the fuck they want, which is why they turn into criminals or disrespectful arrogant cunts.
In my opinion as I was raised, a slap on the face is reserved for talking back, or talking in a disrespectful manner, swearing continuously after being told not to was grounds for having "non antibacterial" soap put in your mouth, hold it for some time, then spit it out and wash your mouth out (it still leaves a nasty taste but you don't ingest it). Every other offense was ground for either verbal scolding or a good old fashioned ass spanking. None of that is child abuse as long as the severity of the punishment is in moderation.
Parents should be able to do this to their kids, and parents that don't should be beaten themselves for not giving their little shits what they deserve. Most children today need a good old fashioned ass spanking to put them in line and a lot better parenting. To many parents here in the US let their kids do whatever the fuck they want, which is why they turn into criminals or disrespectful arrogant cunts.
Skinny Viking
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^ thats cause too many people here are shitty parents having too many kids who end up becoming assholes
the great circle of crap continues
Is there room to squeeze out one more poop reference in this?
the great circle of crap continues
Is there room to squeeze out one more poop reference in this?
John_C
formerly Skeksis268
Having being brought up without ever having to even consider i might get in some way physically assaulted by my parents, I am continually horrified by people who seem to think it's ok, or in some cases even important!
No one should ever be afraid of their parents in ANY way in the slightest. Strict discipline does not need to and should not include violence.
No one should ever be afraid of their parents in ANY way in the slightest. Strict discipline does not need to and should not include violence.
Skinny Viking
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^ maybe it never came up because you were not a dick?
Just saying, there are well behaved kids and then there are little assholes who are fed the idea that there parents are not allowed to smack 'em if they cross the line.
"crossing the line" doesn't mean not picking up your toys after the 2nd time of being told to do so ... I mean more along the lines of "fuck you mom"
if I had a kid and I heard him say that to my wife, you better believe that kid is getting slapped. Not the same way I'd hit a full grown man but he's getting something thats for sure and I find NO problem with that. I got it once in a while and I deserved it and I'm a well adjusted adult with nothing but the best relationship with my mother
I also did great in school and never got into trouble as a kid. Sometimes because I could run faster than the cops but mostly because I made the right choices. I made those choices based on respect for my mother and for other adults, not fear but I also never felt fear if I got slapped, more just a feeling of knowing I stepped over the line
Just saying, there are well behaved kids and then there are little assholes who are fed the idea that there parents are not allowed to smack 'em if they cross the line.
"crossing the line" doesn't mean not picking up your toys after the 2nd time of being told to do so ... I mean more along the lines of "fuck you mom"
if I had a kid and I heard him say that to my wife, you better believe that kid is getting slapped. Not the same way I'd hit a full grown man but he's getting something thats for sure and I find NO problem with that. I got it once in a while and I deserved it and I'm a well adjusted adult with nothing but the best relationship with my mother
I also did great in school and never got into trouble as a kid. Sometimes because I could run faster than the cops but mostly because I made the right choices. I made those choices based on respect for my mother and for other adults, not fear but I also never felt fear if I got slapped, more just a feeling of knowing I stepped over the line
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crillemannen
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John_C
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I was often a bit of a dick, i'd swear at my parents and shout and argue with them about what i was/wasn't allowed to do etc.
They just denied me access to the things i wanted e.g. access to a computer, lifts out to see friends etc. It worked fine and I've never got in any serious trouble (or even any minor trouble really).
I think the question of why the kid feels the need to be such a dick is often ignored in favour of harsher punishments.
I don't necessarily think that the occasional slap is a serious issue, but I know a lot of people (aged in their early 20s) who are still now afraid (not my judgement, their words) of their parents because of how they got hit when they misbehaved.
The sad thing is, many of them think it's the right way to parent and talk openly about how they intend to do the same thing to their kids one day.
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In most western countries it's considered a crime to hit people in public, especially if the person being hit is in some way weak or vulnerable. In Sweden it appears that they actually put 2+2 together and realised that just coz you gave birth to something, doesn't give you special rights to commit public assault. All the same, I wouldn't have called the police......that's a bit of an overreaction and does more harm than good.
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Skinny Viking
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Anyway, we can all agree that a simple smack after too many tantrums is better for the kid than grow up without a father because he´s in jail, right?
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