IMO coming out and attacking a group of people for what they believe or don't believe makes you an asshole.
Either that or just a fascist - asshole? fascist? one or the other.
Slight sarcasm intended.
Listen - I'm neither religious nor an outright atheist - probably more agnostic than anything in as I just don't care nor do I let it impact the choices I make or the way I see the world. My only "moral code" is my own and almost entirely based upon trying to live some form of a just life (mind you - my definition of "just" is not a religious one - more based upon the golden rule of treating others as I would hope to be treated myself). It really is as simple as that.
My favorite quote is one by Dr. Viktor E Frankl:
"Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
I look at it as ones reaction to any given circumstance - the idea of free will and what we do with ithat defines us, our meaning - it's the only one true thing we control, our reactions. Dr. Frankl was specifically referencing to how we react in the face of unchangeable suffering. He has said that every person is spiritual in nature (in the search for assigning meaning to everything), but not in the religious sense of the term - it's human nature to search for meaning in all things including themselves and meaning cannot be assigned to others.
What we can control and what we can influence? Unfortunately the only thing we can control as individuals is our reaction to any situation. We can certainly attempt to influence others to see that situation as we do, but in the end as an individual they will find their own reaction, their own meaning that may be different form the one we came to.
It's this simple idea that drives my idea of "tolerance". I can disagree with anyone all I want, I can attempt to sway their way of thinking, their beliefs by sharing mine, but in the end it's out of my control. The effort of influencing others is certainly worth taking, but a certain acceptance in the possibility, even probability of them having a different reaction is just as valid a response.
I used this quote in another thread earlier and it might just fit into the idea of tolerance being discussed:
You run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole.
You run into assholes all day, youre the asshole.
By the way - it's a line offered up in this seasons premier of
Justified on FX by Raylan to a bail jumper he has recently apprehended.
As always, individual mileage may vary.