Women/girls as friends

Do you have a properly close female friend?

  • Yes and still do

    Votes: 57 55.9%

  • I have done, but don't now

    Votes: 19 18.6%

  • No

    Votes: 26 25.5%
  • Total voters
    102
I had a good friend, she used to ditch her boyfriend just so she could stay at home watching movies with me, we hung around a lot. I fell in love with her, she kinda did but in the end nothing happened and we stopped seeing each other for a while. Fast forward a few years later, I'm with another girl, a serious 3 year relationship, but then me and my "friend" started seeing each other again, jamming together, other girl was getting jealous, I dumped the other girl and now call her "wife" instead of friend :)

I had many "best friends" in my teens and early adulthood (18), I ending up trying to stick it into all of them and all failed, I always had terrible timing with that friend zone thing
 
I answered the poll wrong. agh.

I've only ever had two really close friends in my life, and one kinda drifted off after discovering a wonderworld of prescription medication. He jacked some pills from the house here and I was done with him. My other pal has a wife and a kid, plus another kid he pays child support for, so we don't hang out and party like we used to. After moving away for a few years I don't have the connections I did before where I was out and about more often.

I know a lot of women, but generally not well enough to hang out. It's hard finding people here that will ride 45min to go to shitty punk shows with me. I live a pretty lonesome life, but being alone can be real good sometimes.

I'm not big on relationships anyway as I commit myself to many other things that come first. When it comes to sex, i am kind of an addict and have somehow managed to keep a steady 2-3 gals within a 50 mile radius interested enough for return visits. Unfortunately I don't have a car now, so I am stuck with the one that is close enough to give me a ride to her place. damn.
 
I have some very good female friends. They are people who i really like and i feel really comfortable with them and they like me for who i am.

Some of them are very good looking, but sex is a no-go since im in a relationship (and most of them also).
 
ive been friends with a chick my whole life literally, 18 years ive known her and im 20 now, we have always gotten on great, never been any sexual tension there because we were around each other so much she was literally like my sister, then about 4 years back she comes out of the closet, i did not see that coming, still great friends and hang out when we can but she moved away for UNI, she wouldnt be my best firend now, but probly one of the closest (when i see her)
 
AboutBlank said:
One of my best and closest friends is a girl and I laugh out loud if someone says that you can't have a close female friend without getting into sex stuff...

Do these dudes bang the own sister?
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no but if I was friends with your sister I'd bang her

I mean, I would have, before I turned my nuts in and got married
 
dude, thinking of banging the sister is evilllll. my sister looks too much like me, I'd feel I was fucking my own vagina in another body. UGH!
 
I've had female friends.

Then I fucked them

Now I only have bros. No homo



Srsly, I can't be friends with a female without wanting to bone her.
 
Yes. My best friend is a female and being one of my best buddy's girlfriend, it sometimes make things awkward and whatnot.
We're very very close and have been like that for maybe a year now.

It sometimes gets a bit frustrating because the majority of the society can't get in their heads that two opposite sex can be that close without having sex. It's almost if we're being called a "couple", and that even by my own parents... Nonetheless, even with all that pressure, she's still and will remain my best friend whom I love very much :)
 
jangoux said:
Did it ever happened to any of you guys not wanting to fuck the female friend but SHE wanting to get fucked by you?
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Yes, once. And it sucked.. I'm still sorry but it pretty much destroyed our friendship. I said "sorry, I don't want this. You're a good friend and I'd like to keep it that way" and she could not handle it. We rarely ever talked after that happened (except maybe for the occasional drunk call :lol: ) and if we did, it was really awkward. We still write through Facebook sometimes, but it's just bland blabla.
Anyway, it would be cool if most female friends liked to fuck 'as friends' - just to friends helping each other and stuff. Everyone in the world would be happier.
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:lol:
"Friends with benefits" is probably the best invention ever. Never tried it, though :erk:

Seriously, I still think if you want to be real good friends with a chick, you must not try to bone her. At the point where she trusts you enough to change in the same room, talk about sexual/boyfriend troubles etc, you would destroy everything by trying to fuck her.. well that's if she's not into it. If both agree, well..
 
jangoux said:
Anyway, it would be cool if most female friends liked to fuck 'as friends' - just to friends helping each other and stuff. Everyone in the world would be happier.
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This happens, and it's awesome :cool:


jipchen said:
"Friends with benefits" is probably the best invention ever.
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Yup,
Open-relationships are cool too ;)
These two concepts make for an exciting mix.

To answer the original question,
yes, i've had a lot of female friends over the years. between 13 and 18 my two best buddies were girls, Still keep in touch today but not as much.

My girlfriend/partner is my best friend, but that doesnt really count according to the rules of the original post.
 
The key is to have female friends that you wouldn't fuck and who wouldn't fuck you. Works perfectly unless one of us gets too drunk :D
 
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