Why can't we be friends?

La Rocque

I am that I am
May 22, 2004
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an exit to eternal summer slacking
Meanwhile -
I was still thinking -
About a conversation, that shot my memory back to childhood
My friend, Teri told me to "Get fucked" - she was being sarcastic
My reply "Do you mean you and me right here, now?" back at her with the sarcasm
Her answer "You can't fuck your friends"
Me "If you can't fuck your friends, who can you fuck?"
More conversation then Teri asked about my first time having sex and do I remember it?
Everyone remembers their first (unless they were too drunk or wasted)
What follows happened when I was 11 years old
My Cousin John and I were fishing and I said its time for me to go, my Mom will have dinner on the table in 15 minutes - (I was always late and to stop my excuses my Parents had given me my first watch a few days before) -
As we walked through this wooded area off to the side were 2 friends of ours, how should I put this? They had their pants around their ankles and this young woman was giving them oral pleasure (back and forth, up and down, round and around, in and out) so we go over to the party and John joins in, I was definitely aroused but if I did not make dinner on time I would of been grounded for several weeks so I left the festivities and ran as fast as I could and just made it home in time
For days it was the only thing I thought about (that scene was burned into my memory and its still there)
Then I bumped into the object on my desire
"Lets go down by the creek"
"OK"
We get to the secluded area
"Lets take off our cloths"
"OK"
Even at this young age La Rocque had the game the ladies liked
Then something happened that at that time was as confusing as Chinese Calculus?
She had laid on her back? Why isn't she kneeling?
Then I remembered older boys talking about this but at that time I just did not grasp the concept? I knew something went somewhere? Mass confusion?
Being the perfect gentleman I helped her to her knees and
BOOIIINNNNGGGGG!!!!!!
Teri didn't think the above was actually having sex?
Sort of remained me of Bill Clinton answering questions about Monica Lewinsky
What do you mean by the word 'by'
What is your definition of 'with'
Well I solved that problem about 3 years later,
much dry time back then
If You want that story Buy the Rights
Now my ques?ion to you forum members
and with apologies to Oasis
What's Your story ... morning glory?
 
No, no, no, you got it all wrong! If you're going to relate semi-pornographic stories here, at least do it correctly.
This isn't the place for that kind of story! Nobody gives a flying fuck if you were molested by some girl. Not on this board, at least not the way it used to be. In fact, I think most male hands started creeping down pants at the mention of going fishing with another male friend. Pleasant thoughts of fishing rods and exclamations of "my god, that's a grandiose cod you've got there" arose, only for the hands to be violently snapped out of the pants as soon as you introduced the girl. Have you no sense of tact? No understanding for other people's feelings?
Really!
 
Northern Lights said:
I think most male hands started creeping down pants at the mention of going fishing with another male friend.
Seriously am laughing out loud. :lol:

But dude.... WTF! That's fucked up, seriously. Why would people want to talk about their kindergarten sex experiences? It's pervy and it's past the line of comfortable conversation...
...That said, I'm not personally against anyone else who wants to write erotically about the sexual exploration carried out in their infancy. EDIT: I just won't indulge in it/will read around it.





Than again, if I may try and take this conversation in another direction, I too think there's a weird issue with friends having sex. Girly friends I know, not well, Go out every friday and if they don't meet a charming man to fill their engine, spend a night having group lesbian sex. I know this because I heard them talking about it.

So a guy and a girl, comfortably good friends, equally horny - Why can't they have sex? Does it come down to an issue of whether or not you're attracted to them, and to have sex with them you would have to be at least slightly attracted to them. Is it this attraction which in return makes the friendship somewhat awkward? Hippies had the right idea, free love and all that shit. Then again is sex something special, one should save for the right person in order that it is a more atmospheric and romantic experience? Or am I being like LaRocque and trying to provoke dirty talk? (To answer that last question; I really am not!).
 
So, I think there's a point I could make here (answering KC's post) because of the last weekend.

A (female) friend of me visited me here in Trier and actually drove home 30 Minutes ago. We're really good friends and I think she's attractive, too (and have a feeling that she thinks the same about me).

So, she came here 2 days ago and slept in my bed the last 2 nights. But nothing happened and I'm sure nothing could ever have happened. So why? Just because we're great friends and that's more important than anything else. If we had sex one day, the only difference between friendship and a relationship would be broken, at least as I see it: I really love my friends!

So we went to bed these evenings, talked and even caressed a little and then I took her in my arms and we slept (NOT with each other, of course).

To get back to the discussion: why should you sleep with a good friend? Just because he/ she is attractive? To my mind, there are lots of people of which I think that they are very attractive. I could (eventually...) sleep with them and won't risk a friendship.

So much more to say was in my mind but now it's all gone... Maybe I'll remember and then I'll post it here.
 
I dont know because Ive never been there, but I dont think sex necessarily ruins a friendship. It depends of course, but what's so wrong with having a little fun with someone you like? :p

As for my first time.. Id rather not talk about it ;)
 
Monica and chandler (in 'friends') started goofing around and it got serious, but ended up good for them. I agree that sex with friends will eventually either lead to a relationship or no freindship at all. It's a difficult situation, because, in the past, I have had lady friends which I have, in a way, lusted for, but they have not lusted for me. This leads to me being their slave :p . Nah, seriously, if they did think "Oh yeah I'll sleep with my friend, it'll be a laugh", it would have been something more serious for me, and I would have ended up being hurt. So I agree with you Schwedentod, there's a line there for a reason and to cross it = complication.
 
at some point, i tried to seduce most of my male friends but never had any luck, so i don't have any fun tales :lol:
 
OK, the point is that my friend and me are something like a team which means that we're very strong when togther. We had lots of fun the last days and next weekend we'll go to RockHard festival together which means even more fun (hopefully...). But as well, she helped me a lot, for example when I had this f**king situation with Andrea. Afterwards, we grew even stronger together and that's something I don't want to miss, never.

About my first time: I don't think anyone's interested in this, right? If so, I would tell you the story, a story with much alcohol and a meadow... ;)

@zupi_clone: WTF are you talking here? I tried to ignore you, but I just can't. You're spamming in nearly every thread... And I don't even understand what you're writing about. Go out, see the sun and have some fun, but don't bore us!
 
To come back to the topic I have to examples in my life, one in which sex ruined a friendship and another in which it improved it. So I dunno what to think :)
 
It ran up a tree as he was finishing his sentence, and Gav likes his eye contact but couldn't move his neck because he's been headbanging to power mettul too much because he's \m/ like that.