Trust me, Chili's is the gayest job. The only good thing about it is that once I get back from tour, I still have a job. Its hard to try and maintain normal home life, and be in a touring band. We are managing, but its definitely a struggle. I can't get a "real" job either, because I would have to leave for tours. The flexibility is what I need right now. Sooner or later, I'll need to get a good job. Death metal doesn't pay the bills!!!