Wow, I mean... c'mon. Life can't be that bad. Can it? (massive thread)
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J.DavisNJ
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Damn brother...that is quite the shit list. My heart aches for you man. I can't imagine going through all of that. I take things for granted sometimes in my life.
It might sound cliche, but if you feel you have hit rock bottom then the only direction to head is up.
Hang your head high, exercise, form a new band (if you haven't already??), find a new chick that will appreciate you. Hang in there man, it WILL get better with time, as do most things.
Feel free to PM if you need to talk at all.
-Joe
It might sound cliche, but if you feel you have hit rock bottom then the only direction to head is up.
Hang your head high, exercise, form a new band (if you haven't already??), find a new chick that will appreciate you. Hang in there man, it WILL get better with time, as do most things.
Feel free to PM if you need to talk at all.
-Joe
Jarkko Mattheiszen
The FU guy.
Wow, that's quite a story, and I really respect the fact that you shared it, as I can imagine it isn't the easiest thing to do. I sincerely wish you the best of luck in the future, you certainly deserve a break.
And what comes to the ex-fiancee, she seems to be - like most of the people in the end - complete human scum. Either she doesn't understand what you have been through (which I find hard to believe considering the situation), she really is an inconsiderate and selfish bitch, or she's so miserable she's using you as a way to feel better about herself. In any case, that's just plain wrong.
And what comes to the ex-fiancee, she seems to be - like most of the people in the end - complete human scum. Either she doesn't understand what you have been through (which I find hard to believe considering the situation), she really is an inconsiderate and selfish bitch, or she's so miserable she's using you as a way to feel better about herself. In any case, that's just plain wrong.
StefTD
Member
Damn, that's fucking hard!
And if that girl is even half as "bad" as you say she fucking deserveres "superaids" (and just realize what she did).
Ums mal auf deutsch zu sagen:
Ich hoff, dass es wieder besser wird-ich glaub ich würde soweit wie möglich weg ziehen und neu anfangen.
And if that girl is even half as "bad" as you say she fucking deserveres "superaids" (and just realize what she did).
Ums mal auf deutsch zu sagen:
Ich hoff, dass es wieder besser wird-ich glaub ich würde soweit wie möglich weg ziehen und neu anfangen.
Jevil
Pro Evolution Fucker
Can't say too much. I'm astonished.
I'm sure you'll know how to face the storm and restart your life.
I'm sure you'll know how to face the storm and restart your life.
Razzee
Kolja
dud, I don't know why you're even talking with her at the moment. I don't know the whole story, what happend etc. but, as hard as it is don't talk with her. At least not yet, just gets you down. I know it's hard.
Your story is really tough, but theres no way to stop now! Push through! I promise you it will get better soon.
Lustige Randnotiz: Warum kenn ich nur Jungs, die von ihren Freundinnen verarscht werden? Ich dachte immer das wäre andersrum, scheiß Fernsehen.
Your story is really tough, but theres no way to stop now! Push through! I promise you it will get better soon.
Lustige Randnotiz: Warum kenn ich nur Jungs, die von ihren Freundinnen verarscht werden? Ich dachte immer das wäre andersrum, scheiß Fernsehen.
Erkan
mr-walker.bandcamp
Life sucks dick sometimes man, but you'll manage to pull that dick out of life's mouth and teach it where it's supposed to go (uhmmm... what just happened there, I'm not sure but, fuck it).
For what it's worth, I think your ex-fiance is doing all that because she is miserable. Or maybe I'm too kind to think that way, but I can't imagine she would act the way she does PURELY to fuck you up even more, she HAS to feel really bad and she must be doing that just to make herself feel better.... otherwise, she doesn't even deserve to walk this earth.
It's hard to find peace and calm when everything around you keeps spinning and flying past you with lightspeed, but you will eventually.
For what it's worth, I think your ex-fiance is doing all that because she is miserable. Or maybe I'm too kind to think that way, but I can't imagine she would act the way she does PURELY to fuck you up even more, she HAS to feel really bad and she must be doing that just to make herself feel better.... otherwise, she doesn't even deserve to walk this earth.
It's hard to find peace and calm when everything around you keeps spinning and flying past you with lightspeed, but you will eventually.
you must stop speaking with her, reading her messages, etc. completely cut her off. it is the only self-respecting way forward.
AdamWathan
Member
+1. Some people just have a way of really getting in your head and knowing how to push your buttons and it becomes hard to realize how poisonous they really are to your life because of the way they make you feel that you need to deserve them in your life. You're better than that shit bro
abyssofdreams
knows what you think.
STINNETT
Bad / Nationwide
You've got to disregard everything that is not conducive to your forward progress and happiness. You can get a fresh start, dude!
And without a doubt that means you've got to completely sever all ties and communication with your ex.
That may be the only way you can move forward, and from the sound of it - it would have the bonus effect of pissing her off too!
And without a doubt that means you've got to completely sever all ties and communication with your ex.
That may be the only way you can move forward, and from the sound of it - it would have the bonus effect of pissing her off too!
GeertSamuel
Member
Push the reset button. Start from 0.
You could do it drasticly by moving far away, finding a new job new place to live etc.etc.
Or start where you're at now, and just try to leave everything behind mentally, focus on the things that have your interest.
You could do it drasticly by moving far away, finding a new job new place to live etc.etc.
Or start where you're at now, and just try to leave everything behind mentally, focus on the things that have your interest.
Metal Overload
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Is tough dude, but you got to stand up and lift up your face, you have to show all the scum you are a better person, and you are human, you have lived difficult stuff, and managed to survive the hard, you still here, try to look forward, fuck your fiancee dude, fuck her, who is she to make you feel like that, she must feel worse and want you to be with her in her feelings, that only thing made her miserable, you don´t need that, to fuck with everything about her.
Look for the future, look for friends, there`s still good people in this world, people to make you feel good, go and hang out, focus on a new band, you are talented, start making new music, come on dude stop running in circles with your old life, you have to live a new one, a better one, and is just around the corner.
I wish you nothing but success, and i know you`ll have it, and soon you`ll be making thread about how you are feelling with your new band, you found a new girl, etc.
Smile dude, go take a walk.
Look for the future, look for friends, there`s still good people in this world, people to make you feel good, go and hang out, focus on a new band, you are talented, start making new music, come on dude stop running in circles with your old life, you have to live a new one, a better one, and is just around the corner.
I wish you nothing but success, and i know you`ll have it, and soon you`ll be making thread about how you are feelling with your new band, you found a new girl, etc.
Smile dude, go take a walk.
Felix Neumann
Member
My friend...Some sneapsters wrote very wise words here.
+1000 for all written so far here. Funky Animal brought it to the point:
Say goodbye to the past, begin a new life! Feel free to phone me, whenever you want, okay?
+1000 for all written so far here. Funky Animal brought it to the point:
Say goodbye to the past, begin a new life! Feel free to phone me, whenever you want, okay?
AudioPhile777
Mathew Cohen
MarkG
Member
Wow man, I'm really sorry about everything that has happened, and it shows balls to want to post that up here, so thats really good for you!
I agree with what a lot of people have said above.
1. stop talking to the ex
2. press that big red reset button and start over
Starting over is hard, but you don't really have to move away far or anything...I think its mostly a mental thing. Make sure you have a list of priorities you work really hard for, and the rest will surely come. As long as you have/get a steady income, have/get a place to stay you can always work things out.
I should also note that alcoholism and drug abuse have a very strong genetic basis. The things you've said have pretty much convinced me you inherited that basis, so I really do think you should stay very far away from alcohol and drugs...they don't make anything better, ever.
I agree with what a lot of people have said above.
1. stop talking to the ex
2. press that big red reset button and start over
Starting over is hard, but you don't really have to move away far or anything...I think its mostly a mental thing. Make sure you have a list of priorities you work really hard for, and the rest will surely come. As long as you have/get a steady income, have/get a place to stay you can always work things out.
I should also note that alcoholism and drug abuse have a very strong genetic basis. The things you've said have pretty much convinced me you inherited that basis, so I really do think you should stay very far away from alcohol and drugs...they don't make anything better, ever.
Jaymz
Stymphalian Productions
Damn dude, that was hard reading. All I can say is I hope everything takes a turn for the best in the very near future! As somebody else said, the only way is up! /m\
