Wow, I mean... c'mon. Life can't be that bad. Can it? (massive thread)

wow. thanks. to all of you.

felix and I had a phonecall in the morning because I got my phone set up today. and he was the one who said: write all that crap down. do it. and there will be good people helping. felix, you got a real friend to me and I want to thank you for the hours you took your time to listen to my crap.

yeah, you guys really made me cheer up and writing that text at all was like a therapy. its still shooting the tears in my eyes when I think about my mother beeing scared to die. but I really appreciate you condolence.

about "don't talk to her" and all that stuff: I allready put her on igno in allmost every community. we werent talking for weeks. she seemed to have the feeling to tell me she has a new boyfriend.
"restarting: I'm KINDA restarting right now but I have some very good friends here and I'm still in the middle of my apprenticeship which will take another 3 years.

I'm just starting to form a new band. Hope that one works. I also met a girl... hope that one works aswell.

I'm so fucking glad this forum is not just about music and you gave me the possibility to let that stuff out. It's allready the third thread about how much everything sucks and I think I can relax now :)
 
you know... when people ask me "what was going on your life?" and I just tell some facts... I always hear: "fuck. don't know what to say."

I really appreciate you people have something to say.
 
Emdprodukt said:
you know... when people ask me "what was going on your life?" and I just tell some facts... I always hear: "fuck. don't know what to say."

I really appreciate you people have something to say.
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Yea, because far from many have gone through what you have dude. No matter what you do, you will handle it in your own way. You've gotta realize you're extremely strong since you seem to be having a life instead of just collapsing like many people would.
 
Fuck mate, that is some heavy shit. I think you are on your way forward with letting us share what you have been through.

My way of dealing with situations like yours is to wake up tomorrow and say FUCK IT! I am not letting her or any other shitty situation get to me any more. It starts from here and theres no looking back, outside of what you have described IMO is a beautiful world out there filled with friends, fun times, music etc, and I know its hard at the moment, but look outside that bubble of shit, reach through and grab life by the horns and I promise you, you will not look back. The next 4 odd weeks are gonna be tough mate, hang in there, and if ya feel like talking, you know where to find all of us. Oh, and stay away from any Cannibal Corpse albums for the next month.:)
 
felix and I had a phonecall in the morning because I got my phone set up today. and he was the one who said: write all that crap down. do it. and there will be good people helping. felix, you got a real friend to me and I want to thank you for the hours you took your time to listen to my crap.
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You´re so welcome, dude!! I tryed to imagine, how would it be for me, in such situations. The thing is, we all will suffer in the future..no parents will live forever! :( It´s good to know, being heared. I like this Forum...even Death Metal Master James Murphy gave you wise words. This is simply great! See this as a tailwind and start a new life. At the latest, when you found Mrs. right and see your own kids growing (whenever this is), then you really know, your live is wonderful. Enjoy every good moments in your life. I don´t wanna hear the name of your ex again, when we phone. Look forward :) You´re young!
 
Gojira_ said:
You've gotta realize you're extremely strong since you seem to be having a life instead of just collapsing like many people would.
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+1

You've had the worst life imaginable pretty much, yet you still keep strong because you haven't collapsed or killed yourself or anything like that.

My thoughts are with you :)

Joe
 
slayercannibalsuffohead said:
Fuck mate, that is some heavy shit. I think you are on your way forward with letting us share what you have been through.

My way of dealing with situations like yours is to wake up tomorrow and say FUCK IT! I am not letting her or any other shitty situation get to me any more. It starts from here and theres no looking back, outside of what you have described IMO is a beautiful world out there filled with friends, fun times, music etc, and I know its hard at the moment, but look outside that bubble of shit, reach through and grab life by the horns and I promise you, you will not look back. The next 4 odd weeks are gonna be tough mate, hang in there, and if ya feel like talking, you know where to find all of us. Oh, and stay away from any Cannibal Corpse albums for the next month.:)
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Yea exactly, I have gone through one major crisis in life so far, and it really fucked me up upside down and inside out but after a year or so I just thought "ENOUGH ALREADY! Fuck you, I'm not dead yet and I sure as hell won't be because of this crap" and just started working my way up again. At some point, you just grow sooooooo tired of feeling like shit, and you realize that it's just silly to feel that way since there actually is no reason to do so anymore. Grieving is necessary but only for a little while... it loses its meaning when it has been going on too long. I don't think grieving and sadness is supposed to drag you further down, rather the opposite, it's supposed to let you relax and feel all that crappy stuff in order to cleanse and release all bad shit from you, so that you then can restart and move on.
 
This music always makes me feel happy and better:

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IEgfjB90cQE&feature=related[/ame]

Hope you enjoy it! :)
 
shit dude that sound fukin terible.

I know youve probally heard it before but man just thinking positivley helps alot with this shit, jus think about how things are gona end up alright and more often than not the end up fine, not always the way you wanted them to be but sometimes better than you could have thought of.
 
Oh if we're going down that "this is what I listen to when I'm down"-path, I'd like to link some shit too :D




Swedish hardcore/metal band Raised Fist... awesome guys, they are probably the most sincere and honest musicians I have ever heard. Their music is straight from heart and they hate media hype. In fact, they take breaks as soon as they become "too" popular, to let things wind down. Crazy dudes! This song I'm linking is sick though, it helped me process a lot of shit when I was fucked up... and they've made an awesome job in making you actually feel the lyrics. Seriously, I feel like I am standing on shaking ground with the rain just pouring down on me like mad:



"Moved by nature & everything around
Watching the sky while I try to stay on solid ground
Maybe this can bring new spirit into my life
Maybe this can help me to decide
At least I've tried

Life's too short for us to be apart
The same song echoing sadly in my heart
I know you shouldn't run away from what's on top
But the rain just doesn't seem to stop

Even though I put these memories away you're not returning - Away
I cannot run away from this today but I'll leave a candle burning - Cannot run away from this today" - part of the lyrics.​
 
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Right.. i read this this afternoon as soon as it got posted.. back then i had no words to share, but i do understand all that you wrote down, to a certain degree offcourse.
Felix said write that stuff down, very good point.. dont just write it down so we can read it, also write it down just for you because as you might have noticed.. it feels like a relief to write this stuff down right? keep this up, keep writing, from every angle and perspective possible, just let it flow onto the paper..

Nothing else to add man, everything has been suggested and i think they are right when they say that you "just" need to hit the reset button... insert coin and try again, lol.. you'll be fine as it seems you certainly have got your head screwed on the right way and still keep things together even after such a rough time, keep that in mind and with that mindset you will be stronger.
 
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