Allison
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Originally posted by Fjelltussa
I think it is a beautiful thing to do to your son! -And I admire you for actually managing it! I don't thinkI would. I would let my children be free to choose whatever path they wanted, but I believe I would have taught them about what I believe in, to. -And other things...
Have you talked to other heathen parents about it? I know my sister in law is. She's a heathen to, and she and my brother will teach their daughter (who's only one year old now) about that, but they will be open to let her choose whatever she wants to. I don't know where she is talking about these things, or if it is in english, but well, it is some kind of a forum, anyway.
Thank you Fjelltussa. There's been times when i've wondered should I teach him but opted to just let him observe me as I get on with it. I wish I knew any other heathen parents to talk to. Where I live I'm not so likely to find any. I have come to realise that for a lot of kids, an interest in this path doesn't usually emerge until their early teens. For me it came at age 10, and for some doesn't come until well into adulthood. I think he has been watching and learning more than I thought because 2 months ago I was in a spot and had to have him assist me in a ritual and I was stunned at how well he handled it.
But you know what it is that makes or breaks a person on this path - the study. There are a lot of people who want to do this but will not devote the time to learning properly. They want to just jump right into the practical end of it and skip the important study phase.
There are some fantastic children's books about Paganism available for your niece.