Are You Singel?

ShadowLioness said:
I'm not single, though I may as well be at the moment. My mate lives too far away from me. That's just typical for me though.
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That's a pretty great situation, doing anything you want at home but not having the need to look for someone to date. Like a French saying says, it's like having the butter and the money of the butter.
 
After 8 1/2 years of total devotion to find myself single again is something of a release.
I find I've got my own space and my own mind back! I'm learning to have a life of my own -doing whatever I want, when I want makes such a change (and I seem to have more money to spend too)!

I'm mostly enjoying the single thing. Plenty of guys crack on to me but why is it always the ugly and/or crazy ones?
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All the nice guys don't have the nerve I'm told. I guess that leaves me with the duty to go up to them (then risk the knock back).

The main problem I'm finding is getting to and from gigs/clubs when my other friends don't want to go out (cuz they're not "on the pull"). As a single woman it proves really tricky, especially if I want to go to another city. And I can't guarantee I'll get a bloke that I like to come back with me.

After my marriage I'm just having some (safe) fun, but I'm still picky as to with whom. I want to do the casual thing cuz I don't want my heart broken again for sometime!
To K of London - if you need any comforting and are up my way look me up! (there's nothing worse than unrequited love, I know):D
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Demonic Rapture said:
I'm single. Which is nice sometimes, but often I do get a bit lonely.
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exactly...its not that bad being single....but from time to time I feel so lonely, it would be cool to have a nice girlfriend besides me;)

@Welly: Did I read right? Nice, dood...I am happy for you :headbang:

oh...I am falling in love with one hotty here...just next time I have to take my balls with me when I will meet her again:D :p

:wave:
 
Sisterofnight said:
To K of London - if you need any comforting and are up my way look me up! (there's nothing worse than unrequited love, I know):D
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Sounds like an offer :D


@EFF: I was talkin' out of my experience, but a 38 yrs old friend of mine says the same. And I think he has enough experience to do so. (and you may ask why I said FRIEND, well actually he loves me, but we could somehow live with that and don't care about it...and we are TRYING to stay friends...but I don't think that we could bear it for long...)
 
_Zsuzsa_ said:
@Niniel: hahha, actually same here :p But I can resist them for 5 months now in a row :D Still...I am at the begining of a great and verrrry sexually heated summer, so...anything could happen ;)
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It's people like you who make the Xanax and Prozac market soooooo flourishing.
 
_Zsuzsa_ said:
Now actually it is true, so where's our goddamn money for the good work??? :yell::yell::yell:

:lol:
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The good work???? Failed studies, depression, nervous breakdown, insomnia, booze+anxiolytics, getting overweight, not giving fuck about anything at the extreme point where even killing yourself seems useless.
Yeah, that's good, very good work ladies.
 
@Zsuzsa: my overall point is that while love IS a bitch in most cases, all friendships don't necessarily have to end up in a painful rejection
there are plenty of cases where it does happen and i've seen a lot of them, even gone through one, but even then i'm very confident of this conclusion
 
The Trou-Peur said:
The good work???? Failed studies, depression, nervous breakdown, insomnia, booze+anxiolytics, getting overweight, not giving fuck about anything at the extreme point where even killing yourself seems useless.
Yeah, that's good, very good work ladies.
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I'd like to add in a ( ) that boys are the same :rolleyes: So stop blaming the girls for everything, will you?


@EFF: I'm happy for you if it's true. I'm still waiting for that experience. :)
 
_Zsuzsa_ said:
K, sadly things like this happens... after you tell her your feelings everything changes. There is no friendship between men and women, or not for long...one of them always ruins it.
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Sorry, Zsuzsa, you couldn't be further off...

Although it is a rarity rather than a common thing, I have to admit that.

But hey, I am best friends with a girl, so yes it is possible.
The fact that makes this even more incredible is that I once had feelings for her! I told her about it, and well, she didn't want to go in on it, cause she just came out of a long relationship. And I respected that, but after a while I stopped having those feelings (I got to know her a little better, went travelling with her, studying abroad)! And now, we are nothing but very good friends, with the occasional fight and arguement. But I also have fights and arguements with another of my best friends (and he is male).

And no, my feelings back then weren't something like a "crush", they were quite serious.
And yes, we often had talks about feelings, we still do, I tell her when I'm angry with her and things and she tries to fix it then, and vice versa.
And we have had talks about those feelings I had for her, and we did it as normal people. Nothing bad came from it. Funny thing is, now she is actually dating my best friend!!
 
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