I've got a Jackson Kelly Pro Star....basically it's a cross between a Kelly and a Rhoads V...I also had to get used to the unbalanced neck. Maybe it's just a fuckin' V or odd-shaped guitar thing. Now, I don't even notice it when I play standing up...I used to have the same problem with holding the neck up because it was unbalanced, but now it doesn't bother me. I think I just got better, that's all.