I'm sort of somewhere inbetween the digitalness and the "real amp"-ness. I don't know what my tone is perceived like by others but I think it sounds digital "enough" to work for my music but without being all too digital, harsh and nasty.
As for the best amp sim for this... I don't know. I don't think there is a best amp sim for this. Teh djentz depend mostly on these factors:
- New fresh strings
- The bass guitar's interaction with the guitars
- Playing style
Once those things are "right", I think you can achieve a djenty tone with just about any amp sim really. I chose to work with WarpVST because it's the only amp sim I feel works for my current music but I have a hard time believing you'd like it
But seriously, new strings make a WOOOOOORLD of difference so you can't really setup a djenty tone through some amp sim using old strings... it just won't sound right. I've tried doing it and when I switched to new strings, the tone changed so dramatically that I could no longer use the same effect chain. I had to go back and redo some stuff.
It also helps if you boost the mids/upper mids before the guitar goes into the amp sim. It brings out this metallic djenty percussive sound from the guitar. I've located my sweet spot to be around 1450 hz if I remember correctly. The bandwidth of the boost is up to you but I think I have mine set at about 1 octave, and the boost's strength is about 6db.
I have tried playing around with compressing before the amp sim but I haven't gotten very good results so far but I think I'll give it another go sometime... I like the idea of squashing the dynamics a little bit before the amp to bring out an overall more "evenly" saturated tone.