It's sad that people usually expect you to like certain music based on your looks (or, rather, they DON'T expect you to like certain music, based on your looks)!
Personally, I'm disgusted by the "metal look", and find it to be extremelly counterproductive, but that's just my opinion. And, I love the fact that people are shocked (both metal fans, and non-metal fans) that I love bands such as Emperor, Opeth, My Dying Bride, etc. Of course, I also love the Beatles, Gary Puckett & the Union Gap, the Temptations, Barry Manilow, etc., so I really DON'T have one "look" or style which would accurately describe me!!!