Eh well think about it... we'd effectively be celebrating our anni with peeps who know me based on crap I pretty much stopped doing when I got a serious girlfriend. Plus my other common ground with you is music she doesn't like. If it was just some random week I'd be all for it. Outside of that thieving sausage watcher azal, the motW forum peeps have been rad in person on some level or another.
So like maybe if we didn't go out of our way and make meeting an event in and of itself I wouldn't feel bad. There are museums in the city we want to see. My employer's cultural appreciation initiatives mean I can get me +5 into some of the places for the same cost as one. So if we don't get along... you can go check out poo sculptures while we explore cookie art with no real loss for anyone involved.