OK, instead of quote many times, I just did this.
Misanthrope: Somehow this is the first time that while i do not care much for myself i just feel like every idiot that makes fun of my fatass out there or every girl that laughs at my funny messed up hair is not even worthy of my atention all togheter...
Well, thats a turn for the better IMO. Who needs them. Who needs their approval. If you did, itd be like falling prey to their little game.
MindzI: ...it's that shyness factor that prevents me from doing it I guess.. any tips?
Yeah, right. Shyness never faded in me yet. Maybe it I get to know them really well but even then Ill still have bouts of shyness. Its seems neverending. Youll have to want it bad enough to finally work up the nerve to ask out a girl. Let your guard down and just do it. Does it get easier the more you do it? It must. I could never bring myself to do it. Talk about putting your pride on the line. Oops. I was trying to help. I failed. Let me say this. To some shyness seems attractive.
Oh, guys? Before you ask a girl out, do you homework. Find out if shes got a boyfriend first. Find out as much as you can. Thats key...if you want to save yourself the embarressment of hearing I already have a boyfriend.
Leadfoot: Confidence in a can.
Yet
I wanted to talk to this guy once so bad but couldnt get the nerve. I grabbed my beer and thought Hm. Confidence in a can? After a few, I realized that Id only
think I was being confident, but Id look like a drunk bitch.
Ah well. It worked.
I can usually relate to the more detailed post from Belial too. I like the way you word your feelings.
I tend to agree. Not always, but most times.
Thanks to Tenebrose for that quote. That was really cool and so true. It's important to accept certain things in our lives. It helps people move past difficult times/thoughts.
YoYa: you can walk past someone in the street that you never spoke more than a sentence to and was one of those 'im to cool for you' type people, and theyll be happy to see you and no longer have such an attitude.
I had people that didnt like me at school. I remember thinking that they were the only reasons I ever hated going. Ive seen a few since and when I do now, I want to treat them the way they treated me. I want to give them dirty looks and walk the other way when they say Hi like that.
Revenge!
Kittarin: My self esteem tends to vary depending on how I look.
Looks. You too? Yeah, its a bit different, but its still looks! I can understand it though. Isnt that what they say?
When you look good you feel good.
Do not turn your face towards me,
Confronting me with my loneliness.