I for one, do not believe that you asking for a kiss was so bad. Women aren't fucked up. Its the generalization that they are, that fucks everything up.
Everyone plays mindgames... Guys, girls. It doesn't fucking matter. If she didn't want a kiss then she shouldnt have kissed you. I know where your at Dreamneonblack. I've been tossed around by women and still hold nothing against them. Oh, and dead lioness, just because you dont want to be with someone 100% doesnt mean you should say "fuck'em".I know that you've probably didnt want to see a boyfriend every now and then, or you were angry at them and didnt feel like seeing them. Relationships have to be maintained, they dont just happen, It wouldn't be just "their" loss.
If you like a girl and shes playing "mindgames" with you, just sit down and talk with her. If you really like her and she really likes you, but shes not sure if she wants to be your girlfriend, or just a friend. Then what have you got too lose? If you really like her, go for her. If somethings not worth fighting for, then its not worth having. well, thats my opinion anyway.