Expectations

[Emdprodukt]

I hate them. They always lead to disappointments.

 

[MarcusGHedwig]

I hate them. They always lead to confusion

 

[Emdprodukt]

This is not ment to be ambiguous... I just have to learn to expect less to nothing from other people. Would safe me a lot of trouble.

 

[Steven Otto]

I hate them. They always lead to disappointments.

Word!

 

[Mikaël-ange]

I hate them. They always lead to confusion

Good one

 

[jeid]

Expectations. Keep them low, then you can never be disappointed.

 

[Mago]

You R disappoint?

 

[The Front Studio]

Expectations. Keep them low, then you can never be disappointed.

Always expect the worst and you'll never be negatively surprised.
That's the way to go.

 

[Emdprodukt]

Expecting the worst is the other extreme which isn't any better IMO. Your subconsiousness will force instant FAIL. This is just a theory for errors in perception. Can't find the name. Let's say you're working with other people on a project. You're the bandhitler but the band is running out of time and you have to share some work. You don't expect anyone to do his/her job right. This will make you force things to go in the wrong direction, because in the end you will do most of the stuff yourself and most likely not very good, because it was way too much for one person. You don't trust people at all. This can lead to other forms of frustration.

 

[The Front Studio]

Expecting the worst is the other extreme which isn't any better IMO. Your subconsiousness will force instant FAIL. This is just a theory for errors in perception. Can't find the name. Let's say you're working with other people on a project. You're the bandhitler but the band is running out of time and you have to share some work. You don't expect anyone to do his/her job right. This will make you force things to go in the wrong direction, because in the end you will do most of the stuff yourself and most likely not very good, because it was way too much for one person. You don't trust people at all. This can lead to other forms of frustration.

Damn I never looked at it that way!

 

[abigor731]

you mean self-fulfilling prophecies?

 

[Emdprodukt]

haha, exactly! I had it somewhere between halo-, primacy- and all those other effects

 

[MartijnPaauwe]

Just go with the flow as much as you can, that's my way to go

 

[AD Chaos]

Expect the worst from people. They will rarely dissapoint you.

 

[Cacoph0ny]

So have none