Blinded By Blood said:
Most people criticize vocals or say its too heavy when I play metal around them
I'm not a music evangelist, I don't need to fucking introduce people to metal
Exactly, kinda. I realised a loooooooooooooong time ago that introducing people not into rock at all to metal was a hopeless process. These days the only evangelising I do is for newly discovered bands (by me) to my metal-listening to friends. I have a couple of mates at work - one who will listen to mainstream thrash (minus Slayer) and Christian metal (he's a baptist, but nether the less, a good bloke), and the other grounded in 70's hard rock and prog.
I've got the former into Turisas, Bolt Thrower and Carcass (which is amusing to hear a baptist trying to justify his own enjoyment of the lyrics to Corporeal Jigsore Quandary), and the latter to Amorphis, Pentagram, WItchfinder General, Panzer X and (bizarrely) Slough Feg.
The former hasn't converted me to anything (the Christian bands he's listened to aren't very good - by virtue of music - Sinai Beach??????), while the latter has turned me on to Uriah Heep, Jethro Tull etc etc
For it to be successful, it generally has to be a two way process. HAving said that, my younger brother (ten years younger!) is now raiding my collection, having spent the last few years stuck in a rap and r&b maze of urban blandness. He's now buying Impaled, Exhumed, Cradle of Filth (I know you won't agree that this is progress!) etc, and the chances of him playing anything of worth to me are remote...