This is a general statement so no one in particular needs to take direct offense--but if you feel guilty or feel like you must defend yourself then obviously this is aimed at you.
I don't care who you are or what experience you have in the music industry--I have a front row seat to the amount of work my dad is doing with this tour. I see the frustrations and disappointments he has to put up with while venue owners and promoters can't give a straight answer and have their asses on their shoulders about something that may or may not make them a good profit and I see the amount of bitching and moaning when fans can't get their way on a band coming to a city of their choice or a coast they live on. I tell ya what, you give a check to Intromental with the full amount due for one of these shows and see if YOU break even in the end and are able to bring a ProgPower style band back to your area. If anyone has a damn problem with it, you can get off your asses and either help or do it yourselves.
Thats all Im gonna say about it, you can deal with it or you can leave it alone.
Right on little brother, i too know what he has gone thru, as I have become a sort of sounding board, and it irks me to hear about the no responses to e-mails or phone messages from venues. And they wonder why they are left off tours, doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.