Damnit man, there are DOZENS of threads just like this one...but well, bitching about it won't make it go away
I can't STAND old man's child.......I don't know, I guess I just dislike most "symphonic" black metal.
Grand Alchemist is a good band in this so called subgenre though. And yeah, I don't like Dimmu or CoF either, but to each his own.
If you want awesome black metal, then check out the following:
Dissection-Storm of the Light's Bane (more like black/death but brilliant) and The Somberlain
Emperor-Anthems to the Welkin at Dusk, Prometheus (these are ABSOLUTELY mandatory)
Naglfar-Sheol
Immortal-At the heart of Winter
Taake-Bjoergvin (sp?)
Windir-Likferd
Negura Bunget-'N Crugu Bradului (my favorite right now)
Negura Bunget-Sala Moska (sp?)
And for more adventurous, avantgarde BM, check out Arcturus and Borknagar (ok, so I don't know if they're BM, sue me)......and maybe even Bethlehem (same).
Etcetera, etcetera