so... yesterday, talking to my mother about books - she recommends one to me, to which i answer (largely joking) 'nah, i just like books about depressed people.' she was very confused by this - 'doesn't that depress you?' at this point i almost answered with 'no, i depend on darkness,' but it just doesn't seem like the sort of thing which is a good idea to say to one's mother. but that all got me to thinking - most of the 'entertainment' (music, movies, books, etc) that i enjoy is dark, to some degree or another... i like things about vaguely depressed people, i guess. but what really kinda surprised me is that it seems that some people just don't get that - they don't understand why its enjoyable to read/listen/watch/etc things which are 'dark' or 'depressing'... so what is it that makes us (those of us who do, that is) enjoy that sort of thing? i mean, i'm not by any stretch your 'sits around in all black all day feeling sorry for self' type - i'm generally pretty positive about my life, actually, or at least no more negative than a lot of people. but where most people like to hear happy stories, i like the sad ones. so, people, what are your thoughts on this? what makes us (presumably) fairly normal people 'depend on darkness'? that's really my question, i guess - why do we find solace and enjoyment in darker things than the rest of the world? is there some fundamental difference between us and them? if so, how far does it go? i'd really like to hear all of your thoughts on this, please... thank you, friends