To ABQShredHead (just a supportive post):
Actually, I've had a similar situation. My father was diagnosed with prostate cancer about 3 years ago. Luckily, he was diagnosed in time, because it showed up to be rapid evolving kind (about 5-6 weeks later and the cancer would have spread to the lymph nodes, which is fatal). He had the surgery and went on hormonal treatment for a month or two. I can still recall the day when he, after the therapy, went to the hospital to get his biopsy results that would show if the cancer had fully disappeared. Well, it had, but still I can remember how i really couldn't believe what was happening. I thought it was some kind of joke... Reality can strike you pretty hard.
To everyone: sorry for posting a Symphony X irrelevant and "none-of-your-business" post