Sex is not the same as love. For example, a woman may fall in love with a man...they really enjoy being with each other and do love each other, however, when "in the sack" he doesn't do it for her, sexually. This same woman could meet a man whom she has no personal connection with at all and have orgasm after orgasm while having sex with him, with no love present at all...this is not all-inclusive, there are those couples who love each other and enjoy "lovemaking" together, there are those whom could never enjoy "sex" with another without loving them.