sex and love

[nomana-nuniyan]

sex can be veeeeerrry good without love. ....
but i think (romantic) love is no good without sex, not for me at least.

yep, to all of that.

 

[bleed_black_orchid]

I cant say Ive had sex without love BUT I know for a fact that I probably would so I think that despite it being nice to be in love and shag all day in a orgasm filled rampage I

 

[bleed_black_orchid]

followe on from previous post

think that sex can still be enjoyed even when you arent in love.

Heres a question though how would you feel about being in a loving relationship with a guy that was about as good in bed as a 94 yr old with no limbs..so basically shit. Would the love be enuff?

 

[Dhatura]

Oh, that's a hard one, one of the hardest ones actually. I have no idea.

 

[toolsofthetrade]

yer allowed to dump him

 

[Andy_2003]

Oh, that's a hard one, one of the hardest ones actually. I have no idea.

well that's the main thing eh, work from there

 

[Strangelight]

yer allowed to dump him

what if its the other way round?

 

[Dhatura]

That the girl can't make the guy go? Hm... I guess that's the same.

 

[toolsofthetrade]

what if its the other way round?

probably for the best for both

 

[Don Corleone]

i have admired duncan's way of looking at things. genious

 

[toolsofthetrade]

marry the lad while he's still single

 

[Don Corleone]

i already asked him while he was here. he refused.

i drank for a week after that. hard times...

 

[Strangelight]

That the girl can't make the guy go? Hm... I guess that's the same.

but wouldnt a guy be the evil bastard for dumping a girl for being "as good in bed as a 94 yr old etc..." ? Whereas its acceptable the other way round. All the girls would have a giggle about the lad not being able to get a stiffie or so..

 

[Allan]

Most guys would share that laugh probably though, but point stands anyways.

 

[Strangelight]

Most guys would share that laugh probably though

ah yeah I was gonna say that an all

 

[Don Corleone]

a woman who lies like a log i n bed...is as bad as a 94 year old who cant get it up...maybe worse 'cause after all the man is 94 ffs!

 

[autumnsphere]

your conversation is adorable

i still think that when love's there it doesn't matter if the guy is like a log in bed, the important thing is how YOU feel, not how he's doing his job.

 

[Frodnat]

As long as you don´t love a certain person, don´t fuck this person. Imagine we didn´t had something like prevention. Overrated, dopamin-junkies !!!

 

[Allan]

Question probably isn't whether you can live with bed logs if you love them, but whether you can fall in love with bed logs. And who cares.

NP: In The Woods- Empty Room

 

[DragonLady1]

ah well, sex is an important point of a relation, but its not the only thing... and just cause it wasnt that good a few times doesnt mean its always like that... u cant always be on the top... so sometimes its better, sometimes its not so good, depends always on the circumstances... but if it totally stops, I mean if he and u dont feel like doing it anymore, what then?