ok, here's me again, meddling, meddling. remember me?
see, onyx, you said he was "bizarre", in a rather reflective, thoughtful way (the short sentence, the rolleyes... are you with me so far?), so realgopher [fuck, i'm running out of variants from mentioning him so much today...] felt it was funny to reply in an exaggerate, excessive "no, you're the problem!" way. it was a bit as if he was mocking a scene out of a movie where two people argue and they keep on saying "you!" "no, you!" in a very outspoken but sterile way.
now, if you don't find it funny, fine.
but he assumed you would see the joke. the fact that you could be somehow sick never crossed his mind. he could have picked any other topic, for instance if you had told him he was witty, or incomprehensible, or macho.
so to end this embarrassing post... he was trying to have fun with you, much like when dark_jester and i discuss our homoerotic meetings. we're not really gay, you know.
expect dark_jester to reply something on the lines of: "what? you really are not gay? and you led me along for so long?". that
will also be a joke. and so on.
rahvin.