sex and love

[Faelivrin]

nobody can live without love.... without love life is empty... gray... it is proven by psychologists that people can't live normally without love...

 

[DragonLady1]

oke, but love is more then just whats happening between a man and a women, u can love a friend, a landscape, nature, music etc... I think the point here is just: can u have sex with someone without having a bf/gf relation with him?

 

[Dhatura]

Fortunately, it's rather simple for me.

 

[Dhatura]

But Lady, you don't want to have sex with the landscape or your mum (well, Andy maybe). So it makes all the difference.

 

[althea]

For me no sex without love. Dunno maybe I'm a hopeless romantic.

But I can understand people doing it without love.

 

[DragonLady1]

hahaha, no, this was just a reply to what faervlin said, not to the rest actually

 

[Alwin]

sex without love, yes i did that a couple of times
but compared to the relationship i'm having with my gf, it is a very shallow form of joy, satisfaction, interaction, etc

 

[autumnsphere]

Autumnsphere, righteous avatar

...lovely.

thank you dear! the whole picture is just beautiful:

what's up guys...? it looks like there are some romantic souls around, huh? and i'm telling you again - it's not about roses and candles, it's about the fever in your lungs, sometimes i really feel like i can't breathe. have you ever lost consciousness while having sex? only a word can make you dizzy and make you come....

this is sex with love.
sex without love is vapid.

 

[autumnsphere]

So familiar and overwhelmingly warm
This one, this form I hold now.
Embracing you, this reality here,
This one, this form I hold now, so
Wide eyed and hopeful.
Wide eyed and hopefully wild.

We barely remember what came before this precious moment,
Choosing to be here right now. Hold on, stay inside...
This body holding me, reminding me that I am not alone in
This body makes me feel eternal. All this pain is an illusion.

We barely remember who or what came before this precious moment,
We are choosing to be here right now. Hold on, stay inside
This holy reality, this holy experience.
Choosing to be here in

This body. This body holding me. Be my reminder here that I am not alone in
This body, this body holding me, feeling eternal
All this pain is an illusion.

ALIVE

Twirling round with this familiar parable.
Spinning, weaving round each new experience.
Recognize this as a holy gift and celebrate this chance to be alive and breathing.

This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality.
Embrace this moment. Remember. We are eternal.
All this pain is an illusion.

 

[sol83]

i can guarantee you girls will have a different opinion in ten years, when you'll realize that men are scum.

on a more serious note, yep, i'm with you that sex and love together are great like. fuckin briliant. but if someone goes ahead shaggin without loving is he/she like, just cos its a pleasurable thing. are those people like bad or something, weird, no good, what's the story like?

 

[Dhatura]

I don't mind them until they leave me alone

 

[DragonLady1]

well if both have this same aim its oke like, it becomes complicated when one of them thinks its about a relation and the other one just thinks that its about sex...

 

[sol83]

yes. thats what i'm saying. honesty. just be honest about things. its simple and it saves you the trouble. obviously its bad to use love to get laid when you dont mean it...

 

[toolsofthetrade]

No, never. You have to half-close your eyes and smile too, and mean it.

...god

 

[Strangelight]

have you ever lost consciousness while having sex? only a word can make you dizzy and make you come....

Tell us what that word is. My life will be a hell of a lot easier

 

[Susie]

Tell us what that word is. My life will be a hell of a lot easier

I think the word is schnizzzaahh

 

[autumnsphere]

Tell us what that word is. My life will be a hell of a lot easier

that's what ive been trying to tell you the whole time. the word doesn't matter. it could be "banana fish" or "stars", the thing is that love is a hallucinogenic that makes you feel things that aren't there.

 

[siderea]

have you ever lost consciousness while having sex?

a friend of mine was telling quite enthousiasticly about struggle sex the other day...

 

[Shadowlike]

sex is for the flesh, love is for the spirit. Nothing new here

 

[Susie]

sex is for the flesh, love is for the spirit. Nothing new here

Well said