Beelzebub said:
Je-SUS, stop it already. I thought we could all be adults, I guess I was wrong.
I'm still 17...does that count?
But seriously...I find it to be complete bullshit that so many people on these forums do not know how to respect other people's opinions. And I am going to throw out a blanket statement and say that we are ALL guilty of this in some way, shape, or form. After reading many of these endless debates in "versus threads" and other such discussions, I have been able to draw such a conclusion. Some people have taken things to extremes by not allowing any opposing views without penalizing others for it. For those of us who are guilty of this, you know what that makes you? A communist, if you really think about it. A simple debate is alright once in awhile, but "versus threads" never really get anywhere, they always turn into just a bunch of people bitching at one another, with the occasional person who agrees with someone. Everyone is allowed their own set of opinions and beliefs, and if someone disagrees, oh well, that's going to happen. That is what debates are all about, expressing yourself; letting everyone know what you think, and also taking into consideration, other peoples' opinions. I personally hate all the "versus threads" that come up in these forums, they are quite pointless, although they are sometimes fun to read. If you would like to discuss two musicians, you should make it "What's your preference?" rather than "Who's better," because discussing who is better will just go in circles a million times over. My point is, if you would like to debate with others, do it in good faith, and listen to (or read, rather) everyone's opinions, and do not penalize those who do not agree with you. No one likes a person who thinks they are always right, which is why these debates turn somewhat "violet," for lack of a better word.
NOTE TO THE ODYSSEY:
These so called "Jerkoffs" who disagree with you aren't going to kill you, there's no point in leaving a forum because of a few people who might piss you off. Chances are, those you disagree with on one topic, you might agree with on another, who knows. As for the name calling thing, yeah, that is kind of annoying, but you shouldn't let it get to you, it's really not worth it, you should have other things to worry about.