Contol Denied is possibly a good example of what I am looking for but still leaning more towards the musical style of death metal, Capharnaum have too many "core" elements(mainly vocally) to it for what I am looking for, that said I do like what they did and were 10,000 times better than Trivium. What I had in mind was the death part of Opeth with clean vocals...I guess there is not much out there. Amorphis and DT are not what I am looking for, I do like both bands earlier material but not for this instance, you are definatly right in regards to death/doom like later Katatonia etc
btw that video was horrible and the opposite of what I am getting at.