The Ozzman
Melted by feels
Relationships are about compromise. If you can't compromise on some things, then it won't work out at all.
I think people put way too much stock in stupid shit........etc
Whoa. I never said anything about no compromise or about having anything specific in common, just a generally compatible lifestyle and hobbies that don't drive each other insane.
But hiphop is a deal breaker =P
Yep. Some things you just can't compromise on. But that being said I'd say the same about male friends as well. I don't have a single friend who likes hiphop. Country? Punk? Pop? No interest in music at all? Those are points of compromise. I think the hiphop it comes with the baggage of a certain lifestyle and/or attitude to even have an interest in the music style.
Yep. Some things you just can't compromise on. But that being said I'd say the same about male friends as well. I don't have a single friend who likes hiphop. Country? Punk? Pop? No interest in music at all? Those are points of compromise. I think the hiphop it comes with the baggage of a certain lifestyle and/or attitude to even have an interest in the music style.
Ugh, just unfriended my ex on facebook because of some stupid and meaningless status she posted. I need her out of my life completely. I can't imagine a girl being more psychologically unhealthy for me. I don't think this friend shit is going to work.
Mathiäs;9891716 said:1 - You're an idiot.
2 - You people have got to be joking if you say you'll turn down a potential match due to liking a certain genre of music. That's something that really doesn't matter at all in a relationship.
^That doesn't make any sense either though. No person only listens to one genre of music. That's damn near impossible. So there's always something out there or on the radio for both people to compromise on listening to. Making any bigger deal of it than that is stupid.
Very. very true. The deeper down values (religion, money, morality) are much more important, although I also like reality shows and shitty pop music.I think people put way too much stock in stupid shit like what type of music someone likes, or what kind of tv they watch, etc. None of that shit matters when it comes to a good healthy relationship. I hate most of reality tv and shitty pop songs, but most chicks enjoy that type of thing. Does it make them a bad person, unintelligent, or "not my type?" Fuck no. What I care about is how religious (if at all) someone is, do they have goals or at least have some desire to make the most of their life and not want to be a slutty party chick. Are they intelligent, possess a good moral compass, care for important things that doesn't involve blowing loads of money on dumb pointless things. You know, shit like that.
hehehe... but seriously"NOT BASMATI?! YOU FUCKING WHORE, OUT OF MY SIGHT!!"
Lighten up broI think you need some things in common. You don't have to match on every level, but at least have compatible hobbies/interests. I used the example of knitting before not because I give a fuck about knitting, but it's something compatible with a homebody who is generally reading/gaming/jamming. What the hobbies are don't matter so much as the compatibility of said hobbies. Music is kind of a tricky one because it does radiate. Black Metal wouldn't go over too well with someone who doesn't at least like metal/hard rock on a basic level. I sure as fuck couldn't date anyone who liked hip hop.