Males and Females

[Vossyrus]

I wasn't really being serious but I do think it would be a fitting end to this peculiar puzzle.

Really though, it sounds like you've got to schedule in an appointment with her first just to have a conversation or even to discuss plans for a (potential) get-together. I just don't see how any sort of healthy relationship could come about from being with this woman.

 

[The Ozzman]

I wasn't really being serious but I do think it would be a fitting end to this peculiar puzzle.

Really though, it sounds like you've got to schedule in an appointment with her first just to have a conversation or even to discuss plans for a (potential) get-together. I just don't see how any sort of healthy relationship could come about from being with this woman.

Well, it's possible that this is the reason why she's single. My sister worked weird shifts when she was starting out as a nurse, so I'm trying to be as understanding as possible when it comes to this.

 

[King Richard]

Being a loner is where it's at imo. Even when I was with Ashley I was still a "loner." Basically the only person I did anything with was her, but it wasn't even remotely similar to hanging out with friends or other family members.

 

[Vimana]

Agreed. Though, I think for me it's mostly due to a lack of maturity since I'm only eighteen. I broke off the more serious of my relationships simply because I'm just not mature enough to care about all the thoughts, actions, and feelings of another person. The only girl I could imagine myself being with now is an atheist who loves to talk at length about videogames, religion, politics, philosophy, history, music, and languages.

 

[Zephyrus]

The only girl I could imagine myself being with now is an atheist who loves to talk at length about religion, politics, philosophy, history, music, and languages.

This is my ideal, too, but I'm not an idealist, so I pursue anyone who has the potential to fulfill emotional needs that do not necessarily have to overlap with my academic life. My girlfriend of two years was an ecology major and our academic interests were almost completely separate. We connected in other dimensions. Well, mainly sex, but that was good enough and still is.

 

[Vimana]

I wish I were a little less picky, but I think with the aid of online dating services, I could find my ideal girl. That makes it hard not to do a mental checklist with every girl I meet.

 

[Draehl]

That's definitely my problem. I could list any number of criteria...thin, light complexion, not too girly but still feminine, more of a homebody that a partier, similar interests, likes to drink but isn't a drunk, agreeable but not a pushover either. I could go on...

With the dating sites though it's definitely my aversion to the fatties. All the ladies that seem like perfect fits are not at all physically attractive. The attractive ones are incredibly boring and seem to thrive completely on social interaction and don't seem to offer much else.

 

[Vimana]

I know that feel. I don't care about race so much, as long as the girl is attractive. But if I were to list all my criteria for women, I'd sound like a woman.

 

[The Ozzman]

I know that feel. I don't care about race so much, as long as the girl is attractive.

This for me. My requirements are that she's not too grotesque looking or too fat. I find a fair deal of women attractive as long as they aren't fat or ugly (imo of course). I'm very fond of older women (30+ years old with 40 as my cut off for hooking up and 35 my cutoff for dating)

My ideal pick would be 32 years old, natural auburn hair, a sleeve tattoo, likes metal, no kids and at least 5'7" tall

 

[Draehl]

25, red/blond/light brown hair, no tattoos, likes metal, no kids, and less than than 5'7" tall. =P

 

[The Ozzman]

25, red/blond/light brown hair, no tattoos, likes metal, no kids, and less than than 5'7" tall. =P

Touche, good sir

 

[Mort Divine]

I think if I could break out of my shell of being awkwardly quiet in social situations I could afford to be much pickier than I am now. As it is, low confidence is my Achilles.

 

[Vimana]

25, red/blond/light brown hair, no tattoos, likes metal, no kids, and less than than 5'7" tall. =P

I'm going to one-up you now. Attractive, shorter than me, younger than me, atheist, intelligent, as into languages as I am, logical, loves exploring new music, plays an instrument or sings (well), loves to discuss politics, history, philosophy, and religion, will understand and use videogame references, would enjoy playing Starcraft (or any other game I enjoy) with or against me, is active, but not like a jock, isn't pretentious or full of herself, doesn't mind me having a forever alone party once in a while, and doesn't talk to me about boring, insignificant things.

 

[SentinelSlain]

19-22, a little shorter than me, but not short (I'm 6"2), white, slim but curvaceous, either brunette or artificially red haired, a sweet voice as opposed to a strong rural accent and heavy smoker voice, good legs, nice feet and a lovely athletic but curvy backside. Plus tits that say, "hey, look at these". Oh and it's a bonus if she's from some other European country and has a cool accent, although there are exceptions. She should be really sweet and not conceited. She should be slightly more intelligent than me, but love me anyway and be really cuddly and generally a warm person with a healthy sexual appetite and fantasies that sit comfortably with my own. She should also be a great cook, specializing mainly in European dishes that lack rice.

Oh yeah and she should be really pretty.

 

[Draehl]

Oh, how about a showstopper for most of you? Nothing bigger than a B cup.

 

[Vimana]

 

[Draehl]

Good use of Mr. Chan.

 

[Vimana]

In all seriousness, there are long term benefits. Mainly the lack of sagging later on.

 

[MasterOLightning]

I'm kind of bummed today. Went on a really good date with a very pretty girl last week. Some spirited making out while waiting for the bus afterwards. But she lagged about the follow-up date and then pulled the "just friends" card on me yesterday, yet she wants to see me again next week. I'm thinking it's probably mostly that she's into another guy or girl more, so I'm not sure if it's worth it to put up with friend time and hope something develops later, or if I shouldn't bother. It's not like I have too much else going on, and if there was something of a physical connection before, it might go there if I get a few drinks in her.

I hate not knowing if there was something I did wrong on the first date, or if she's dating around and there's someone hotter I can't compete with.

 

[~Derek~]

Is that your Saturday? Just head to Walmart and start randomly approaching women?

Haha, a small part of it. Meeting women is such a minuscule part of my life. Actually I slept in late and then had a good breakfast. I played some guitar after watching TV. Then a little later I went to the park and ran a couple miles. After that, I went to the pool hall and shot a couple games of pool. Went home, had some McDonald's food that Mom brought me. Then a couple hours later I did the Wal Mart thing. Randomly approached 2 women, one with a friend, things went well, but they had boyfriends. Oh well, after that I went to my favorite "dairy bar" to get some ice cream and chatted with workers. Then I came home and played more guitar and New Super Mario Brothers on the Wii. And I'm watching MMA fights and boxing matches tonight.
My life doesn't revolve around girls.