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That stuff is serious. I did a really long sociology paper on the extent of erectile dysfunction and access to hardcore porn in Japan. I forget the exact stats but I think I remember only like 30% of couples in Japan said they had sex/and or were satisfied with sex regularly.
 
Is this something that only applies to non-virgins? Cuz all of my sexual release is aided by porn and pillow, yet I'm capable of getting erections when people smile at me in a certain way. When I watch porn it's only to scratch the itch and I literally usually close the window within five seconds of ejaculation, and to me people in real life seem so much more attractive than those on a computer screen. I mean, it makes sense that a middle aged dude with a badly-aging wife, after decades and decades of routine sex, would simply spend his time watching porn instead, but that's not really what a porn addiction entails I think.
 
That's actually a really good question. Didn't really look much into libidos of virgins. I know that 50% of males and 20% of females admitted to reading sexually explicit mangas from Upper Middle School - High School. Didn't see anything about whether they were virgins or not. But did find a lot of decreases in crimes related to sex, libidio, and general reproduction overall because of the widespread porn available. But looking into whether or not they were virgins is really interesting, though I'm almost afraid it wouldn't change the results much since I'm not sure if watching a ton of porn is conducive to a high libido. My instinct is telling me no. :/ From what I gather the problem with porn is that it desensitizes and most who use it (virgin or not) don't use it to only just scratch an itch...

Then again, I kinda think you are a special case, HB and probably shouldn't need to worry about ED lol.
 
I started watching it when I was a virgin, so I think it had an impact. For a while, sex felt a bit uncomfortable to me because it wasn't masturbating. I think I wired my brain to be comfortable masturbating. The last time I watched porn, though, I almost didn't get off because I felt like watching it was stupid and couldn't stop thinking about how I'd rather fuck someone than watch someone fuck someone.
 
Did you find that most (if not all) of your erotic dreams had thumbnails or media player windows encapsulating them? I don't watch *that* much porn, but that has always been the most troubling aspect for me. Especially when in the dream it'll get to some really sexy sex and I keep trying to click back ten seconds to watch a particular part over and over, but then the porno changes to something completely different and I get frustrated trying to get to the original scene and wake up having to angrily finish to vague memories of what my mind had conjured just minutes prior.
 
HamburgerBoy said:
Did you find that most (if not all) of your erotic dreams had thumbnails or media player windows encapsulating them? I don't watch *that* much porn, but that has always been the most troubling aspect for me. Especially when in the dream it'll get to some really sexy sex and I keep trying to click back ten seconds to watch a particular part over and over, but then the porno changes to something completely different and I get frustrated trying to get to the original scene and wake up having to angrily finish to vague memories of what my mind had conjured just minutes prior.
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:lol:
 
HamburgerBoy said:
Did you find that most (if not all) of your erotic dreams had thumbnails or media player windows encapsulating them? I don't watch *that* much porn, but that has always been the most troubling aspect for me. Especially when in the dream it'll get to some really sexy sex and I keep trying to click back ten seconds to watch a particular part over and over, but then the porno changes to something completely different and I get frustrated trying to get to the original scene and wake up having to angrily finish to vague memories of what my mind had conjured just minutes prior.
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I've rarely ever had erotic dreams, so I can't really say. The ones I did have were nothing like porn, though.

Nephilim96 said:
How frequently were you masturbating vimana?
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At least daily.
 
Onder said:
Who doesn't masturbate daily?
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damnromulans said:
Probably most women
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i know a lot of women that masturbate atleast once a day

(although some of them are the whole "sexy/batshit thing" where they could easily get laid, but they're just maturbating instead of sex)


anyway
i think for a lot of people
porn addiction has to do with being able to see porn that's completely different than anything the veiwer has access to in real life

such as (but not neccassarily limited to)
guys getting laid on a daily/weekly basis but not indulging their peticular fetish while having sex
men with a foot-fetish for example will frequently be dating/engaged/married to a female that refuses to let her guy touch her feet, (sometimes a girl that doesn't even know/acknowledge her guy's fetish) where the guy is looking at footjob porn even though his girl would never give a footjob in a million years

there could be other things the guy wants in bed but is not getting from his wife, such as blowjobs/anal/watersports/ menstrual-blood-drinking etc etc, where he's looking at porn because wife won't indulge fetishes

and sometimes it has to do with what the wife looks like
where the wife looks like this
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...2.798.2-3.3.0....0...1ac.1.19.img.rumXAoPNg3o
and the guy is jackiong off to women that look like this
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...608,d.eWU&fp=c7301efe80e616cd&biw=792&bih=425
 
talking to married guy on facebook right now

he wants me to fuck his wife tonight

i know her, i think she looks hot

so i'm gonna go get laid in a few hours
 
Funerary_Doom said:
That stuff is serious. I did a really long sociology paper on the extent of erectile dysfunction and access to hardcore porn in Japan. I forget the exact stats but I think I remember only like 30% of couples in Japan said they had sex/and or were satisfied with sex regularly.
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The numbers sound accurate, but I don't think it's porn related. More like most women are venus flytraps when it comes to sex. Tantalizing at first, but, once you're settled in, you get none. Of course, not every relationship is like this and men play a big role in convincing women to not want to get laid. Still, a large number of relationships out there, mostly married couples, have issues with not having sex.
 
Black Orifice said:
The numbers sound accurate, but I don't think it's porn related. More like most women are venus flytraps when it comes to sex. Tantalizing at first, but, once you're settled in, you get none. Of course, not every relationship is like this and men play a big role in convincing women to not want to get laid. Still, a large number of relationships out there, mostly married couples, have issues with not having sex.
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in the USA
this happens alot with married couples
she's really got no sex drive, and she's just having sex with a guy to "snag a husband" where after the actual wedding happens, the sex stops

i hang out with hookers and i know some that only have sex exclusively with married men

and a lot of times when a female spends her whole fucking childhood waiting to wear a wedding dress and then after the "big day" happens they really just feel no sex drive anymore
 
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