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INTP: thought process: hmm lets look at all the evidence and ponder and theorize
INTJ: you're one of those people, so you're wrong and an idiot
INTJ: you're one of those people, so you're wrong and an idiot
I think my INTP brethrens care about reality more.
Do you have scientific evidence specifically showing that people can change personalities?
Are personalities even definable In a scientifically sound way? The way in which you interact with people? Of course you can change that. Do you interact with people the same way every day? I doubt it. If you take control of your own mind everything you do is a concious choice. Then just learn to adapt and think quickly on your feet and you can be whatever you want at any given moment.
Lol of course you psychologists always think there's something wrong with people. Either they're unskilled and overestimate their abilities or they're skilled and underestimate their abilities. How about people that are fucking skilled and know it? Apparently you can judge my level of skill, even when my level of education and career has surpassed yours? Maybe you're overestimating your own psych abilities prior to grad school here..
Their research also suggests corollaries: highly skilled individuals may underestimate their relative competence and may erroneously assume that tasks which are easy for them are also easy for others.[1]
Never said it was easy. I said it takes years but it is possible. I'm trying to help people overcome this believing they are pinned to one personality and that's all they will ever be. Accepting any shortcomings that come along with that as "oh that's just how I am" bs. You can be whatever you want. You can improve nearly anything about yourself if you try. Not saying it's easy. But who wants to be held down because of some label. That's half of what fucking psychologists do. Hold people down with labels and make them think they need medicine and counseling. A lot of people just need time and inspiration to figure things out themselves.
Are personalities even definable In a scientifically sound way? The way in which you interact with people? Of course you can change that. Do you interact with people the same way every day? I doubt it. If you take control of your own mind everything you do is a concious choice. Then just learn to adapt and think quickly on your feet and you can be whatever you want at any given moment.
Do you think a homosexual can "take control of their own mind" and turn straight?
Well I think the social sciences (including psych) are full of a bunch of garbage so no argument from me there. No reason to throw the baby out with the bath water. It's simply a very difficult area, and there's far too much conflict of interest.
OTOH, there are matter of fact limitations for many people. Those limitations often manifest as "not caring", but these are face-saving defense mechanisms. Give average people a legitimate reason to need to care, and you will be surprised with the return you get. But unfortunately also with what you don't get. You're using some vague terminology: "improve". Sure, there's nearly always room for practically achievable improvement in nearly any area of a person's life. But time and energy is finite: Opportunity cost. Genetics (whether intelligence or physicality), experience, and social support provide floors and ceilings and practical goals.
To put it in very concrete, current terms: All the blue collar out-of-work people can't simply go "learn to code". For those that could, how many can go where the jobs are? And so on.
A lot of people need time and inspiration, and the medication can give them time and the counseling can give them inspiration. Of course a lot of people get no time and inspiration, and therefore suicides.
I actually agree with a lot of what you said this time. The ability to improve oneself is also a skill that a lot of people don't realize they have or is limited by their current place in the world somehow. By improving oneself to that limit though, they can take steps to raise the limit and it's really a path that can continue upwards to a surprising extent. One part of changing the limit is removing people in your life that hold you down. Whether those are bosses, friends or family members. In the end you don't need anyone that holds you down, maybe a couple family members as a support system and that is it. True power comes from within.
Eventually some blue collar person(s) can learn to code if they take their first steps down that path.