Okay, this is hillarious, Hardcore dancing has nothing to do with being tuff, or being a scene kid faggot, seriously this made me laugh so dam hard,
i am a pusher, and a dancer, if the riff is right do what you want right. but i can tell you, dance pits are the funnest i've been in. when every one around you is throwing arms and kicking, its getting you anger out WAY more than just pushing and running around like some dude, hardcore dancing is not just scene kids, i'd love to see you tell a die hard mad ball fan. that hardcore dancing is for scene kids, i'd lol.
first off. best shows i have been to is four year strong, a day to remember,new Found glory, and international super heros of hardcore (NFG), no barricades, so everyone was stage diving, and everyone was catching em, having a bad ass time, the pit was a blast. no one was trying to be tuff we were all just having a fun time throwing down and dancing, you know what, sure it looks gay. but look at moshing in general. running around and smashing eachothers shoulders. just as gay as pretending you are a ninja,
so honestly. grow the fuck up. if you don't want someone dancing in the pit, don't fight em. just stand where you are, chances are they aren't trying to hurt you.
Just respect everyone in the pit, and they will respect you. deal with it