Post your sad love story...

Wow! That's so original and unique to Tool!

Sorry, but that band gets on my nerves a little. Used to love 'em, too.

To the thread-starter: I sympathize with you, because you sound a lot like me, in that you get your hopes up - also because you seem to like beer a lot. =] But you really didn't know this girl at all. By your own admission, you didn't even think anything of her until your friend told you that she liked you. Frankly, she doesn't sound like much, if she flaked out on you so easily. She most certainly was NOT 'the one'. I would tell you just to say, 'Fuck her, she's a bitch,' but I get hung up on such things just like you do. But after a little while, you'll realize that she was nothing at all. All she represented was a hope that proved fleeting and ill-founded. You will probably find someone else. She may also come around eventually. It's hard to tell with people - especially ones you didn't really know at all in the first place. You'll be all right soon enough though. ('That's not soon enough!' Ten points to whoever gets the reference.) Hang in there.

As for my sad love story.... I thought I had a really tragic one for a while, but it has turned out right after all, so I'm not going to go into it. But take my word for it that it was VERY difficult, and for a while I thought it was going to be more than I could bear, but... things worked out, even after I had completely given up and saw no hope at all. So take heart!

Ryan
 
"If only I'd thought of the right words, I could have held on to your heart
If only i'd thought of the right words, I wouldn't be breaking apart
all my pictures of you..."

Girls are shit. Relationships are shit, they make you feel like shit. Its all a fucking joke.
I've been hurting since my last breakup a few months ago. its never hurt me that much before, I think that must be the only time so far I've actually been "in love", or at least I believe I was. Takes the piss how some cunts can suddenly decide to turn off their feelings. pfft.

I wasn't going to reply to this but it really irritated me. We are not 'cunts.' I HATE that word SO MUCH! CAPS LOCK! EXCLAMATION MARK! Sorry if it seems I am attacking you, I'm not, and it certainly isn't my intention. Just in general I wanted to point out calling women that is not going to get you anywhere. I understand you are upset about your breakup and life sucks, but it will get better. I'm sure you don't use it in everyday conversation, just giving you a heads up in case you meet someone who gives you butterflies and makes you see rainbows and shit. :)
Yes, and boys can be just as evil, especially when they cheat on you.
 
Ok I think we must talk about "which katatonia song tells your love story or something like that". If we talk about "boys" and "girls" here is the answer: Man understands other man's statements (what men want?), woman understands other woman's statements (what women want?).. so here is the key :) Did you understand? Gay/Lesbian concept always save you from some of these discussions :)
 
Well, its been some days since I created this thread, but I've read all replys. Thanks to eveyone who posted something constructive, its just what I needed(even though I know none of you in person heh, you share some similar music tastes as well as similar drinking habits =] so I feel I can relate). I'm glad a few of you sympathized with me about the fact, you seemed to really understand the situation. I'm also aware that it was a waste of my time to get too worked up over the situation, but like Vincent and others said, its good that I went through such a thing as it will make me think more next time. Keep the posts coming...

Cheers people :kickass:
 
Thank you pwd for this thread. As I said before maybe we can talk about "katatonia music & love". Maybe we say "which katatonia song reminds your sad love story?" Maybe a word or verse, song, lyrics or just music.. come on let's share
I think you could say every single lyric...lol. I think there was a thread like that before, though I'm not sure.

Yes, there it is...
http://www.ultimatemetal.com/forum/katatonia/411547-katatonia-song-you-your-love.html

Oh, and another:
http://www.ultimatemetal.com/forum/katatonia/408463-songs-failing-relationship.html
 
it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all
and When you have no one, you feel shitty all the time.

that's all i have to say about that
 
Ah come on boys (and girls) cheer up!
I'm s.i.n.g.l.e. with no prospects what so ever and it feels so good.

I guess most of the people are indoctrinated by the thought that you need to have a bf/gf when you want to be happy. I've been single for a long time by now and I feel great most of the time. I don't feel like having cheap relationships in which I can't give my love 100%, so I'm pretty much patient about all this. If a potential victim comes along it would be great, but I'm not desperately waiting for her. I've got enough stuff to occupy my mind with, so I guess that helps not to dwell on things like that too.

Also - no offence- I'm afraid some people need things to whine about, so they pick loneliness, while they wouldn't actually be happier if they were in a relationship
 
^oh my i just watched cold ways in your myspace
awesome performance, owns the album by far