derek
Grey Eminence
I dunno.
As a guy, sometimes we don't mean it, it just sorta happens. I'm think I'm a nice guy, but I've hurt girls before and it's not out of being an insensitive jackass, it's just because guys deal with things differently. Of course it's not always good, but sometimes it works out that way.
I don't think the dichtomy of chauvanist pig Vs charming nerd holds any weight. It's tired and has no more mileage. I think people are people and finding one you are compatible enough with to have something special with takes alot of trial and error. Sometimes people get hurt, that's how it goes when you let yourself invest things in a relationship that does not work out. What ya gonna do?
As a guy, sometimes we don't mean it, it just sorta happens. I'm think I'm a nice guy, but I've hurt girls before and it's not out of being an insensitive jackass, it's just because guys deal with things differently. Of course it's not always good, but sometimes it works out that way.
I don't think the dichtomy of chauvanist pig Vs charming nerd holds any weight. It's tired and has no more mileage. I think people are people and finding one you are compatible enough with to have something special with takes alot of trial and error. Sometimes people get hurt, that's how it goes when you let yourself invest things in a relationship that does not work out. What ya gonna do?