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I dunno.

As a guy, sometimes we don't mean it, it just sorta happens. I'm think I'm a nice guy, but I've hurt girls before and it's not out of being an insensitive jackass, it's just because guys deal with things differently. Of course it's not always good, but sometimes it works out that way.

I don't think the dichtomy of chauvanist pig Vs charming nerd holds any weight. It's tired and has no more mileage. I think people are people and finding one you are compatible enough with to have something special with takes alot of trial and error. Sometimes people get hurt, that's how it goes when you let yourself invest things in a relationship that does not work out. What ya gonna do?
 
MajestikMøøse;5621776 said:
Solution! Date charming nerds!

LIKE ME!

Goddammit I'm dying over here.

Now who exactly is this a solution for? cause you know, I don't know if a long distance relationship would work out well for us...
 
^ honestly? thats a very honest reply derek :)
I must say though.... I agree.
I have hurt people before as well... but somehow I never meant to do so...
maybe you're right... sometimes it does happens...
I think though, in time, you learn not to give mixed signals anymore...
 
There is a point where you realise what you want and you don't walk into relationships and then get scared, yes.

Guys and girls in general always want different things from each other. It's difficult to find a balance sometimes. I think the amount of guys that intentionally hurt a girl is pretty small, but as guys we just do it and never think.
 
so girls, what do you want from men, as a point of reference for the rest of us.



and if anyone says "to take me shopping and buy me nice things for no reason at all, then give me a foot massage, make me dinner and feed me chocolate, and then a night of just cuddling" and I'll cut your throat.
 
Hey, I never cheat. As a rule. It cheapens me way more then I'd like.

I've fallen for that silliness years ago, but now I'd tell a girl I didn't like her before even dating anyone else. That's simple respect.

It is a clause in all relationships I have though that if Jennifer Connelly becomes single, I'm allowed to pursue her. She married the pale, skinny Englishman, so if I strike early enough I think the chances of a Strapping Scotsman are quite high. :)