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Emotions can be very strange that way. We form attachments tha defy all our logic and ideals. I don't think it's the one that got away. The impression left behind, emotional and possibly chemical, is just not fading the way you would want. Ironically, that might be as much because of the bad parts as the good. Stimulus, positive or negative, can have the same effect on our brains.
 
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Emotions can be very strange that way. We form attachments tha defy all our logic and ideals. I don't think it's the one that got away. The impression left behind, emotional and possibly chemical, is just not fading the way you would want. Ironically, that might be as much because of the bad parts as the good. Stimulus, positive or negative, can have the same effect on our brains.
we have now made love and relationship metal \m/
 
Hungry waiting for my pizza... contemplating toasting a ticket for its delicious frostbitten taste.

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Nobody likes metal chicks. :(

I will carry on in solitude!

Are you crazy? :OMG:

You need to come to Europe if the American metalheads are being complete assholes to you. There are many, many metalheads here whose primary basis of choosing the right mate depends on his/her taste in music and compatability with the metal lifestyle, i.e., going to concerts, playing with their band, etc. People aren't ashamed of being metalheads here. There aren't any cliques. Well, there are but everyone hangs out with everyone else...there is no "popularity" bullshit here. If you're a nice person and not a complete douchebag, you'll meet tons of friends and have a wonderful time.

Karen can tell you all about European metalheads as well, I'm sure. I think we Americans still have this notion that you have to be a badass to be a metalhead, and it's not true. I think sometimes we almost try to follow a cliche when we don't have to. Just don't be a dick, that's my philosophy.
 
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Are you crazy? :OMG:

You need to come to Europe if the American metalheads are being complete assholes to you. There are many, many metalheads here whose primary basis of choosing the right mate depends on his/her taste in music and compatability with the metal lifestyle, i.e., going to concerts, playing with their band, etc. People aren't ashamed of being metalheads here. There aren't any cliques. Well, there are but everyone hangs out with everyone else...there is no "popularity" bullshit here. If you're a nice person and not a complete douchebag, you'll meet tons of friends and have a wonderful time.

Karen can tell you all about European metalheads as well, I'm sure. I think we Americans still have this notion that you have to be a badass to be a metalhead, and it's not true. I think sometimes we almost try to follow a cliche when we don't have to. Just don't be a dick, that's my philosophy.


I actually, agree with you 100%.
To be a "metalhead" is normal in Europe, and one can get a job without cutting his hair and society doesn't look at them differently, which brings the natural growth in music popularity.

However, There are some awesome metal heads here too, and Izabel does live in one of the best cities for it.
I think the main problem here, (and goatness, I do not mean to rise this issue , I swear) is her young age....
The ratio of girls and guys in the metal scene is rediculous!!! One will pass 21 and will find herself having guys all over her and very little competition.
Granted, if the guys she will be interested in, will not be assholes who fall for the "groupie slut" type (and sadly there are A LOT of groupie sluts out there)
Metalheads love metal chicks!
In fact.... I must say that I hang out in a lot of "non metal" circles as well, and guys just love "cool chicks" who are down to earth, regardless to their metal taste.

You are one, Iz.
 
people who know "they're pretty" or "charming" play with that card often, in the wrong way... :erk:
Oh yes. They feel that their good looks give them a free pass to be bitches/bastards (strike out what is not applicable). Why aren't there any pretty girls out there who just want a guy to make them happy? :(

so what do guys look for? come on lets hear it *grins viciously, for she has heard the answer far too many times from her guy friends*
I look for a nice, pretty girl who is honest, laid back and who takes the time to understand why sometimes people act strangely instead of judging right away while expecting to be automatically forgiven herself whenever she does something wrong.

And my overprotective nature also means I look for girls I can fold my wings around and protect.

Nobody likes metal chicks. :(
For me, metal chickitude is not a requisite, but it's definitely a plus. You're just hanging out with the wrong guys if they judge you based on your music (which is more awesome than they crap they probably listen to.

Argh. I just used the phrase "to hang out".
 
Metalheads love metal chicks!
In fact.... I must say that I hang out in a lot of "non metal" circles as well, and guys just love "cool chicks" who are down to earth, regardless to their metal taste.

Exactly. A lot of not metalheads love metal chicks too (ok we’re not talking about fanatic bitches wearing corpse paints everyday and fuck the cross)… A lot of my non metal friends would be with a metal chick because they simply like the style and a lot of them would just be with an intelligent and beautiful girl who can be a metal chick or whatever. Choosing a partner is not about metal or at list it shouldn’t be. There is so much more than this that can connect two people. It’s of course nice to have someone to go to the show with but not having one is just a minor problem that can be compromised…
Age is a factor too unfortunately for Isabel. I know when I was in high school not many guys would date me. These immature jerks actually said my boyfriend was a lunatic to go out with me. Now the same jerks would gladly replace the so called lunatic…
 
Exactly. A lot of not metalheads love metal chicks too (ok we’re not talking about fanatic bitches wearing corpse paints everyday and fuck the cross)… A lot of my non metal friends would be with a metal chick because they simply like the style and a lot of them would just be with an intelligent and beautiful girl who can be a metal chick or whatever. Choosing a partner is not about metal or at list it shouldn’t be. There is so much more than this that can connect two people. It’s of course nice to have someone to go to the show with but not having one is just a minor problem that can be compromised…
Age is a factor too unfortunately for Isabel. I know when I was in high school not many guys would date me. These immature jerks actually said my boyfriend was a lunatic to go out with me. Now the same jerks would gladly replace the so called lunatic…

That's because you're hawt now.

The tone needed lowered.
 
Yeah well forget it, because he just told me that after all that he felt nothing for me.

:(


Well, I am clearly a little late in commenting on that and I don't know the whole story, but the "I never loved you, it was nothing to me" hurts no matter what. It's happened or will happen to everyone I suppose at some point. Screw him! It's his loss, you're gorgeous and awesome. So you win :).
 
Well, I am clearly a little late in commenting on that and I don't know the whole story, but the "I never loved you, it was nothing to me" hurts no matter what. It's happened or will happen to everyone I suppose at some point. Screw him! It's his loss, you're gorgeous and awesome. So you win :).

the whole "i never loved you" thing is a lie, its a defense mechanism for him to make himself feel ok with his decision to end the relationship.