i've decided to keep an in-head list of the films that would depict big concepts within/about human life to aliens, and i can only think of three right off the bat, which to me are probably synonymous with most-important movies:
aguirre
fitzcarraldo
full-metal jacket
unfortunately, i can't say ANY of those feature women, except aguirre, and while i think it is a good role (i'm not counting aguirre's daughter as anything more than a prop), it is more of a sketch.
more?
i'd almost add 'come and see', but i think it diverges into ideas rather than experiences? at points.