I thought it was your band. Did you just strategically leave before the band broke up or just called it a day? If so that would be kind of like a kid who gets into mischief with a group of kids and slips out right before they are caught, then he plays it off like he was never part of the mischief.
So is it still a band, and what will they do without you? You were like the only one who ever seemed to push the band, or so it appeared.